Relationship Repair (Part 5 of 5) Emotional Relational Connection

Frustrated couples ask how to manage conflict in relationships, and rightly so. Conflict is just going to happen. Thus so,, we'd better be experts in how to manage conflict in relationships.

Emotional, Relational Connection at the Heart during the middle of Conflict is # 5 of a 5-part series examining how to manage conflict in relationships. Even during the midst of the conflict, you've got to get to the place that you know that you're not going anywhere and you know that the other person is not going anywhere. You know with certainty that you are going to work thru this. Having this knowledge, this safety net, allow for you to know how to manage conflict in relationships.

Communicating Better with your Partner during Conflict. This video clearly paints the picture of the result of good conflict management - the great intimacy that can be birthed in marriage and in couples. This series can be used along-side marriage counseling or it can be used as a stand-alone teaching series helping couples to birth great communication and stress management - may be even relieving you of the need for couples counseling. Knowing how to manage conflict in relationships is key.

Joyfulness, peacefulness, connection, that what we're after. We also, deep down, really want to matter and know with certainty that we matter to another. Even when this happens, and we know it, conflict will still at times arise. Thus so, we've got to be ready and know how to manage conflict in relationships. Maybe, you're there now. There are a lot of great books and videos on marriage. The Gottman Method is based on upon research. The research of Drs. John and Julia Gottman, explains that there are 4 things that snuff out relationships.

John dubbed them "The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" for "When you hear the hoofbeats, the end is soon to come." The other part of their research teaches us to use 4 things to defeat the Horsemen. That's where this video series comes in. This 5-part series uses the letters DANCE to depict how Master Couples defeat the Horsemen by dancing well - they know how to manage conflict in relationships.

This fifth and final video, in this series, is the really cool part. It shows the result of using the first 4 antidote skills: E: Emotional Connection at the Heart During Conflict. It's easy to have a connection when things are good, but by employing these 4 skills you arrive at a place that you know with certainty that no one is going anywhere. When the dust settles the other person is still going to be there. That's pretty special. If you haven't already done so, go back to Video #1 (Directly Turn Toward vs Turn Away) and watch them consecutively. You won't be sorry. Give it a shot! You've got absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain. Get on that road to feeling really, really good…

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