Your Money DNA: it isn’t your fault (Money series #1 Base)

Your Money DNA: it isn’t your fault

Over the last 20 years of working with clients, I have found that people don’t like talking about money.

It makes them too uncomfortable.

For most people it is harder to have and honest conversation about money than it is to talk about sex or childhood trauma.

We are all ‘knotted up’ about money.

To us, money represents so much more than dollars and cents.

It is tied up to our deepest emotional needs for love, power, security, control, independence and self-worth.

It’s impossible to be an adult and not have some deep-seated beliefs about money and the way that it fits into our lives

Most people never questions their beliefs so their fortunes never change.

Our beliefs are not based on science or truth, they are simply stories repeated like a mantra.

These crippling beliefs about money don’t just show up in finances, they also shows up in our personal relationships

Take the belief of ‘I am unworthy’ for instance. You see straight away what I mean.

Unworthiness isn’t confined to cash.

It shows up in deep nurturing relationships.

Unworthiness creates doubts about being truly loved.

Uncertainty impacts negatively in the relationship which struggles or even fails.

It also shows up in happiness.

The belief once again creates doubt about whether happiness is OK, or do you have guilt that other may not be happy or even shame because we didn’t earn it.

That means that happiness is always tinged with uncertainty. When you think about it isn’t really happiness.

All we have talked about is unworthiness. There is a million of these old crack pot ideas.

Money is the root of all evil.

The rich get richer and the poor get poorer.

I could go on forever

What we need to do is track down these beliefs, dig them out of the hidy holes and strangle them.

What we need to do is heal them. Healing is acknowledging that some damage has been done and we need to feel it to heal it.

Because what you resist, persists.

Tune into this video about your base chakra and how you can work with it to start healing your relationship with money, so you can start to prosper.