Sunshine! How we need it. When we have a lot of rainy days in a row, we get soul moody. Why is that? Well, I believe we need sunshine. Our soul is dependent upon the SONshine of Jesus. We were created to need Sonshine. Our relationship with God is so important, this is where the SONshine of our soul comes in and strengthens our inner spiritual core with joy, peace, wisdom and truth. God’s Word and His Holy Spirit, they light up our soul with all the things that we need, especially future hope. There is so much cultural chaos from nation to nation, and it is stirring up our soul in negative ways, and this is why we need to connect with God, make it personal, be in a vital-vertical relationship with Him and get soul saturated in the SONshine of God. God bless you and yours, MUCH! Dig Deeper: https://thebridegroomscafe.com/in-your-arms/

On A Serious Note… we all deal with people in all forms and in all shapes trying to control our lives. We see the planes in the sky spraying and seeding the clouds and we have no control over that, they are trying to control us. We hear about people wanting to depopulate the earth, doing horrific things, thinking they can control even the population. God is the Sovereign ONE, they are not. Control is a serious issue… God speaks seriously about it, as we are not in control, HE IS… We need to absolutely turn our lives over to Jesus Christ, and let Him rule us, being ruled by His peace is a beautiful thing, being positioned underneath the Rulership of His love is absolutely an amazing way to live. Seriously…we have to clean up our control issues and let God Work, He knows us best, He loves us more than we could ever imagine. Let be, be still and know He is God… Seriously Though… We Pray: Purify our hearts of our control sickness, Lord God… Do you want control in situations and when you don’t get it, are you angry? Do you manipulate people until they give into your control? Controlling others through manipulation and micromanagement is devaluing and very hurtful to others. Narcissism is that unquenchable desire for control in every situation, even if you hurt people, it doesn’t matter, you just need to feed that control issue you have and you keep pushing them with, manipulation that is usually deceptive. The Narcissistic spirit within is not satiated until the person manipulated gives into the control. The control of narcism is corrupted when a person says: NO, I will not be controlled by you and they challenge the deceptions being used to manipulate them and stick up for themselves and stand immoveable on the side of truth. Narcissists make themselves into the victim when you react to their outrageous behavior, they turn it on you, even though they are the ones who have thrown up emotionally all over you, it is still your fault in their eyes, because they have a victim mentality. Poor, poor me they cry as they treat you with extra exaggerated emotional punishment. The narcissistic spirit is alive and well and it is with this kind of corruption, nations try to control nations in evil and cruel ways, and people, innocent people get hurt. It happens also in families where people try to control and manipulate others, devaluing them with deceptive accusations, and setting up boundaries formed on assumptions that are not even truth. Those acting out of narcism have an unquenchable desire to control, and when they can’t control someone, they inflict much pain in the relationship. The narcissist will try to control others by punishing them, by holding back something or someone that they love. This is the worst kind of narcissism, it is cruel, unyielding, and becomes an over-exaggerated punishment, driven by deception of the mindsets of the narcissist, where they actually believe they are doing the right thing, by controlling someone else through manipulation of boundaries set on false premises. What is the motive for the cruel actions of a narcissist, the motive is the tell tale thing. Why do they have the need to control everything and everyone in their lives? Why are they trying to manipulating and micromanage others through narcissistic punishments? What is the heart motive that is causing this extreme behavior? A lot of narcissists have been hurt or wounded in their childhood and have that need to control everything, and this wounded soul, grows into a spirit of narcissism, which controls through anger, setting up relationship rules, and eventually through kicking people out of their lives that they can’t control. Or it could be a nation trying to destroy another nation that it can’t control out of fear, a nation led by ungodly leaders that seek to control others choices about who they serve, what they do, who they do it for, and when they do it. This is extreme micromanagement of people strictly for control of a population. It is sick. We were created with freedom written in our DNA from our AweGOD. It was His desire for us to be nations of liberty and justice for all. Narcissistic national leaders have wounded and hurt people from nation to nation. We pray God takes them down, and strips them of their corrupted authority. God is Sovereign Over Us, Not Humans, With A Human Condition, But Our Righteous God, With Pure Heart Motives And Good Thoughts Towards Us. Stop a moment right now and pray for God to expose and expunge the spirit of narcissism that is alive and well in all of our nations, families, creeds, and religions. Ask GOD to put a stop to illegitimate control over us. In Jesus Name. AMEN! Dig Deeper: https://thebridegroomscafe.com/gods-sovereignty/ https://rumble.com/valden-god-with-us.html https://rumble.com/vdlc95-cra-cra-crazy-times.html https://rumble.com/vd85zl-the-fixer.html

#1MinuteEncouragement We are not alone by any means or shape. We have an Advocate, with us and for us. Father God- Proof; Jesus – Proven; Holy Spirit – Prover; We belong to God, He equips us, provides for us and sustains us. We are loved, navigated and taught. #HeartTOHeart

#1MinuteEncouragement This is a harried, hurry up and schedule more than you can fit in one day? Right! We all do it! It is easy to function on your gifting, talents and experience and not have to depend on God and this is how we deplete our soul. We end up so compassion fatigued, we can’t care about another thing. Time To Replenish! #DigDeeper https://thebridegroomscafe.com/weariness/ #HeartTOHeart