Loving Detachment when dealing with others and their issues
We are all in the Healing Arts...
When we are a good listener, we help others find there way to a healing place. Sometimes without ever saying a word.
The key to this is Loving Detachment, or being Empathetic, not sympathetic.
We must remain disconnected to their outcome, if we place ourselves in a position of being their "healer", in other words, solving their problems for them, we in turn become part of that problem... not the solution.