I talked about my feminine husband

I talked about my feminine husband.Me and my lover have been in love for 3 years. Our love is very sweet. and we decided to get married but after only 2 months of marriage, he was clearly a patriotic, stingy person. He forbade me to go meet friends. He wanted to take full control of his family's finances and even made me stay home from work to serve him. In my opinion, should I continue this relationship?