The Most Important Decision You’ll Ever Make in Your Marriage (That Your Spouse Can’t Make for You)

At some point, you have to decide who you want to be in your marriage—and refuse to hand that decision over to anyone else.

Your spouse’s mood, responses, or broken places don’t get to rewrite your character. If you are kind, thoughtful, generous, and genuinely curious about people, then let that be an expression of who you are in Christ, not a reaction to how others treat you.

When you make your love and kindness conditional, you end up mirroring the very hurt you’re trying to heal from. But when you choose to stay aligned with your values, you create a different atmosphere—one where growth, safety, and real connection can actually take root.

If you’re ready to grow into that person and create a healthier marriage—whether your spouse is ready to do the work with you or you need to start solo—that’s exactly what we do inside Marriage in Bloom. Couples track and solo track are both available. Learn more here: https://debbiecaudle.com/marriageinbloom

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