3 Keys to Help Strengthen Intimacy as a Couple Pt 1 (Marriage Reset Series) - 273

A deep-sea anglerfish isn’t anyone’s picture of romance, yet its eerie fusion offers a stark warning: when we confuse oneness with absorption, we risk shrinking our God-given identities to fit a relationship. We open this conversation by rethinking the unity candle and why keeping both “individual candles” lit paints a truer vision of covenant love—two whole people, rooted in Christ, choosing each other daily.

From there, we get honest about the gap many couples feel between personal faith and shared spirituality. Church attendance and good intentions don’t automatically create spiritual intimacy; safe conversations, humble curiosity, and small, steady rhythms do. We walk through five common barriers—spiritual attack, differences in how we connect with God, unsafe dynamics, hidden sin, and spiritually mismatched marriages—and share practical ways to respond. Expect real talk about fatigue, shame, denominational tension, and what it takes to build trust when sarcasm and lectures have taken the wheel.

We also highlight hopeful research linking spiritual closeness with more affection, less criticism, and better conflict repair. If codependency has crept in or your practices feel forced, this is a gentle reset: honor each other’s sacred pathways, protect a safe tone, and start simple—brief Scripture, two honest takeaways, one short prayer. Wholeness before oneness isn’t distance; it’s the soil where lasting intimacy grows. Subscribe, share this with a couple who needs encouragement, and leave a review to help more marriages find a stronger, Christ-centered rhythm. What’s one small practice you’ll try this week?