Name: The Ultimatum That Changed Everything
Uploaded: 2025-10-22T00:33:00+00:00
Duration: 6 min 12 s
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The Ultimatum that changed everything//What happens when your adult children give you an ultimatum —
“Stop dating him… or lose us”?
You love your kids.
You love this man.
And you don’t want to choose — but you’re being forced to.
In this powerful message, I’m sharing the truth about what to do when you’re torn between peace and pressure. You’ll learn how to understand their fear, check your own heart, and make decisions that honor both your faith and your future.
Because sometimes, the ultimatum that feels like the end…
is actually the beginning of your freedom.
💬 In this episode, we’ll cover:
1️⃣ The pain of being forced to choose
2️⃣ Why your adult children’s fear isn’t really about him
3️⃣ How to check the heart behind your choice
4️⃣ What it means to choose peace over pressure
If you’re tired of walking on eggshells, questioning every decision, and wondering if you’re doing the right thing — this video is for you.
💛 You don’t have to face this alone.
I offer private discovery calls for moms just like you — safe, faith-based conversations to help you find clarity, strength, and peace, no matter what others decide.

0:00 - The Ultimatum That Changed Everything
0:45 - Navigating Ultimatums from Adult Children
03:37 - Understanding the Pain Behind Ultimatums
06:29 - Establishing Boundaries and Self-Respect

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