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HEALTHY FRIENDSHIPS DON'T JUST HAPPEN—THEY REQUIRE INTENTIONAL EFFORT.
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October 18, 2025

RELATED SCRIPTURE
1 SAMUEL 18:1-3
GENESIS 2:18

We all want to be in genuine relationships with others. God created us with this longing (Genesis 2:18), but healthy friendships don’t just happen. They require intentional effort.

Yesterday, in looking to Jonathan and David for a biblical model of godly companions, we saw that mutual respect is vital. Now, let’s look at two more aspects of their relationship. Both of these men expressed selfless love for the other; their hearts were knit together (1 Sam. 18:1). When one man experienced joy or sadness, the other man felt it as well.

They also had genuine devotion for one another, which is a type of commitment that involves giving. To show loyalty, Jonathan gave his friend material items—his robe, belt, and weapons. But even more than that was offered: Jonathan risked his life and future kingship to save David from execution. Notice, too, that Jonathan was a prince, whereas David was a lowly shepherd. Social status shouldn’t interfere with cultivating a true friendship.

We were designed for true companionship based on respect, affection, and commitment. This requires not only time but also transparency and selfless devotion. Trust is needed when taking a risk for friendship, but such relationships are worth the effort.
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SOURCE 👇
https://www.intouch.org/read/daily-devotions

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