Why Staying Single Is The Best Thing You Can Do In Life Or The Lie That You Need A Soul Mate?

Windy Lina Westlaw Present Our 1022th Video... So Why Staying Single Is The Best Thing You Can Do In Life Or The Lie That You Need A Soul Mate? This video reminds me that inner freedom and the ability to stand alone are the foundation for any future relationship to be authentic and enduring. I rather be alone then to be with someone who doesn’t appreciate my efforts and always disrespects me and only wants me for their puppet.

Show more

Being single is being in control of yourself, sometimes the best thing in our lives. This video shook me in the best way. The line that hit deepest was the irony is the silence you're running from is not your enemy, it's your teacher. That truth feels both painful and freeing. Staying single isn’t about rejecting love, it’s about reclaiming your wholeness so that love becomes a gift, not a crutch. Thank you for reminding me that solitude is not emptiness, it’s strength in its purest form. Being single isn’t loneliness — it’s strength, freedom, and the chance to know yourself deeply. Stoicism shows us that fulfillment comes from within, not from clinging to others peoples need before your own needs... but What about need to heal yourself, build a house or make baby? Don’t be completely alone physically, we are not all saints?

Been knowing all this years ago i remember when i was 25 …and i use to tell people I'm single with no kids and not married people use to look at me crazy for having my own mind everyone want you to follow the same script & age timelines …I love my life now I’m 65 and life is like a playground having a blast best shape ever mindset is 10x more money than ever and most of all I’m healed from childhood trauma feel fulfilled today. Love is a very beautiful thing to experience with the right partner in love and or a real soul mate in my life now. This is the kind of gentle truth that stays with me all day. This video reminds me that inner freedom and the ability to stand alone are the foundation for any future relationship to be authentic and enduring. I love to be alone after long time hurting from narcissist people in our beautiful life enough is enough more than enough lol love peace stoic thank you so very much today.

I don't know about this idea of only falling in love because you don't want to be alone with your own thoughts and demons. I was in love just twice in my life and it completely took me by surprise. I wasn't looking for it and I'm naturally a loner so I have no problem being by myself. In fact I fought against it because it was like I was drugged and I had to wait for the poison to leave my system. Love isn't an escape it's a sentence.

I really appreciate the distinction you made between being alone and being lonely. Solitude is a powerful tool for self-discovery and a chance to get to know yourself outside of external validation. It's the ultimate act of self-possession. The ability to belong to yourself first is a freedom that no one can take away. What's a fear you had about being single that you now see as a strength?

The content is extensive and practical to the point of being easy to apply. The arguments about autonomy, time, and quality of life when single are really grounded in Stoic theory. Thanks for sharing this insightful perspective!

If you have a good social circle, family, friends, being single is good advice. If you've always been alone, you're going to want someone. That's being a human. You're going to have to do a lot of work to filter who belongs in your life and who doesn't. Unless you got high charisma levels don't make friends at work. Some jobs require charisma and social skills. If that's the case, then you're gonna be lonely anyway in life.

God created men and women, men need woman and women need men. Never give up on love even if it hurts, follow your heart. At the same time I respect people who want to stay single. Do not forget, you all came to the world as a child of a mother and father... with true love for you in the end.

True Story Of WindyLina Westlaw Age 48 With No Husband Until She Paying $8,000 To $12,000 USD For A Marriage Services In China For Her To Get Marry To A American Man 2 Year Later And She Is Now 62 Years Old And Her Husband Is Now 76 Years Old. Yes This Is A Very Sad Story... With Isolating & Feeling Very Alone At Times And With Injuries And Verbal Aggression. Also Lina Told Me She Is Being Tracked By Jerry Her Husband With GPS On Her Cell Phone Tracking & GPS Tracking Her Car And She Said Jerry Rye Her Husband Has Some Of His Friends Follow Lina Rye Car Around Town... To The Gym, Food Shopping, Etc. Etc.

So With The Help From Her Old English Teacher (Randles) Age 68 And Her Only One True Friend Left In U.S.A. Prof. Randles Thompkins And WindyLina Said We Are Friends Forever And She Ask Me To Do A Pinky Finger Promise Meaning In Chinese!

In Chinese culture, the pinky finger, or "little finger," has a specific meaning when used in a promise gesture. The act of hooking pinky fingers together, known as "拉钩" (lā gōu), signifies a promise or pledge, particularly among children or close friends.

This gesture is deeply rooted in trust and friendship, symbolizing a bond of loyalty and reliability. The pinky promise is not considered inappropriate and is often used informally to seal agreements or commitments.

The pinky finger itself is sometimes associated with smallness or youth, but when used in the context of a promise, it carries a positive and meaningful connotation.

Unlike the middle finger in American culture, which is an offensive gesture, the pinky finger in China does not carry the same negative connotation when used in a promise.

In summary, a Chinese pinky finger promise, or "拉钩," is a gesture of trust and commitment, often used between friends or family members to signify a promise. It is not considered offensive and is a common practice in Chinese culture.

However, it does highlight broader trends in international relationships and financial transactions tied to marriage and migration. Single Chinese Women Propose Men out of Desperation. This engaging video examines the phenomenon of single Chinese women who are actively proposing to men, a significant shift in traditional dating dynamics.

Men no longer want to get married because the risk that his potential wife would divorce him is very high. An honest woman shows her true face and does not hide behind a filter and a thick layer of makeup ! Thing is, so many times these women say they're "only looking for...". And then you find out the woman is actually demanding a whole lot more. In most countries, laws are against men and divorcing is too costly for men.

When the laws change and become more balanced, at that time relationships will get better. I love how many women think that not having a great paying job equals "low quality woman". Us men don't care about your job! Men don't think like women! We only care about youth, beauty and a nice personality. These ladies are just like western females. Especially 10:25 one talking about rejecting men in her 20's and being rejected in her 30's.

Saying it hurts but not considering the hurt she caused. I’m retired so I would take all three but, unfortunately in China a man can only have one wife. They are simple women in that they are not asking for an exotic lifestyle just a place to live, food, clothes, and treat them with respect. If you don’t expose them to expensive things I think they would be very happy and treat their man like a king.

The term "leftover women" refers to unmarried Chinese women in their late 20s and 30s, a label that has been used to describe the societal pressure placed on women to marry. This concept has been explored in various documentaries and books, highlighting the challenges faced by these women.

Chinese Women Pay for Marriage
The provided context does not contain specific information about Chinese women paying $8,000 to $12,000 for marriage services to marry American men. However, it does highlight broader trends in international relationships and financial transactions tied to marriage and migration.

Globally, there are instances where individuals pay significant sums for marriage-related services, often linked to migration or economic opportunities. For example, in some regions, families have been reported to pay large dowries or fees to arrange marriages with foreign nationals, though these are typically not formalized services but rather informal or illicit transactions.

If such a service exists in China targeting American men, it would likely fall under the broader category of international matchmaking or migration services, which can involve complex legal and ethical issues.

True Story Of WindyLina Westlaw With No Husband Until She Paying $8,000 To $12,000 USD For A Marriage Services In China For Her To Get Marry To A American Men. However, it does highlight broader trends in international relationships and financial transactions tied to marriage and migration. Single Chinese Women Propose Men out of Desperation. This engaging video examines the phenomenon of single Chinese women who are actively proposing to men, a significant shift in traditional dating dynamics.

Men no longer want to get married because the risk that his potential wife would divorce him is very high. An honest woman shows her true face and does not hide behind a filter and a thick layer of makeup ! Thing is, so many times these women say they're "only looking for...". And then you find out the woman is actually demanding a whole lot more. In most countries, laws are against men and divorcing is too costly for men. When the laws change and become more balanced, at that time relationships will get better.

I love how many women think that not having a great paying job equals "low quality woman". Us men don't care about your job! Men don't think like women! We only care about youth, beauty and a nice personality. These ladies are just like western females. Especially 10:25 one talking about rejecting men in her 20's and being rejected in her 30's.

Saying it hurts but not considering the hurt she caused. I’m retired so I would take all three but, unfortunately in China a man can only have one wife. They are simple women in that they are not asking for an exotic lifestyle just a place to live, food, clothes, and treat them with respect. If you don’t expose them to expensive things I think they would be very happy and treat their man like a king.

The term "leftover women" refers to unmarried Chinese women in their late 20s and 30s, a label that has been used to describe the societal pressure placed on women to marry. This concept has been explored in various documentaries and books, highlighting the challenges faced by these women.

Chinese Women Pay for Marriage
The provided context does not contain specific information about Chinese women paying $8,000 to $12,000 for marriage services to marry American men. However, it does highlight broader trends in international relationships and financial transactions tied to marriage and migration.

Globally, there are instances where individuals pay significant sums for marriage-related services, often linked to migration or economic opportunities. For example, in some regions, families have been reported to pay large dowries or fees to arrange marriages with foreign nationals, though these are typically not formalized services but rather informal or illicit transactions.

If such a service exists in China targeting American men, it would likely fall under the broader category of international matchmaking or migration services, which can involve complex legal and ethical issues.

So Randles Thompkins Filed A Report With APS Adult Protective ServicesConcerns Involving Mistreatment Vulnerable Adults
Is defined as:
“The willful action or inaction that inflicts injury, unreasonable confinement, intimidation, or punishment on a vulnerable adult. In instances of abuse of a vulnerable adult who is unable to express or demonstrate physical harm, pain, or mental anguish, the abuse is presumed to cause physical harm, pain, or mental anguish. Abuse includes sexual abuse, mental abuse, physical abuse, and exploitation of Lina Rye a vulnerable adult..” Lina Said To Me Randles (Help) Please!

Mrs. Lina Rye Called Me Sometime Crying & Other Times Happy & I Feel So Alone Sometimes !

Isolating
Individuals are kept from or are absent from normal activities with family, friends, or social events.

Verbal aggression
Comments or statements that are intimidating, threatening, or degrading.

Injuries
Suspicious or unexplainable bruises, sores, or weight loss.
Behaviors or emotions
Change in normal personality.

Daily living needs
Neglect or inattention to hygiene, clothing, medication, food, or home.

Property and finances
Unexplainable financial changes or missing money and personal belongings.

Verbal aggression
Comments or statements that are intimidating, threatening, or degrading.
What is the process for APS investigations?

1. Intake: When you make a report online, in person, or by phone or fax, our intake specialists gather information to begin the investigative process.

2. Assignment: Each intake report is reviewed to determine if APS has jurisdiction and assigns an investigation time frame.

3. Investigation: Investigations include thorough interviews, observations, record reviews, and coordination with law enforcement and other agencies as needed.

4. Offer Services: We work with community partners to offer protective services, such as emergency shelter, food, medical care, personal assistance, counseling, and more.

Lina Are you o.k. ? Is your daughter o.k. ? You told me I,am talking to my daughter... and i will call you back in about a hour... I hope you and your family are o.k. today. Let's talk soon... Randles Thompkins Your Old Friend From 2016... Thanks !

Good morning. I’ve made a promise to Jerry that I will no longer have any contact with you. From now on, I won’t be replying to any messages or calls. Please take care of yourself. I wish you all the best.

Good morning to you lina... I do not know who Jerry is... You made a promise to Jerry not to talk to your old English teacher and friend from back in 2016. Last time I saw you in person was at Health Club 2020 and I only talked to you by phone 10 times from 2021 to 2025.. so you made a promise not to talk to your friend of 8 years now. Sad... Randles Wow !

WindyLina Said We Are Friends Forever And Ask Me (Randles) To Do A Pinky Finger Promise Meaning In Chinese!

In Chinese culture, the pinky finger, or "little finger," has a specific meaning when used in a promise gesture. The act of hooking pinky fingers together, known as "拉钩" (lā gōu), signifies a promise or pledge, particularly among children or close friends.

In summary, a Chinese pinky finger promise, or "拉钩," is a gesture of trust and commitment, often used between friends or family members to signify a promise. It is not considered offensive and is a common practice in Chinese culture.

Randles
So now I understand why on Sunday morning E-mail I got from china in 2019. Shirlee Fen fin told me you (lina) are not married to Jerry Rye... Because you got married in front of a judge and not in a church. Because you did not Consummate your marriage refers to the first act of sexual intercourse between a married couple, which signifies the completion of the marriage. In some religious traditions, failure to consummate a marriage can lead to divorce or annulment, although this is not common in modern state laws.

So Lina under US Law Because you did not Consummate your marriage with Jerry and in the eyes of God... Jerry can ask a judge for a divorce or annulment of the marriage... so if you wanted to leave Jerry in the future time or get a divorce... you will get no money... because you are not married in the first place... its annulment and your marriage is over lina.

But I told Shirlee Fen fin if you are married ten (10 Years) Under US Common Laws you are married you can still get your half of the money and if you are 62 years old you can also get social security too. And No Jerry can not deport you back to China Ever! So if you need i'm hear for you Lina... Yes we are friends forever... as per are pinky promise you ask me to make with you at the MU Club back in 2019.
Jan 4, 2020, 11:06 AM
Randles

Jan 4, 2020, 1:30 PM
Randles
so good afternoon to you.
Randles
Number 88 symbolizes fortune and good luck in Chinese culture, since the word 8 sounds similar to the word fā (发, which implies 发财, or wealth, in Mandarin or Cantonese)
Jan 5, 2020, 9:05 AM

Yes This Is A Very Sad Story... With Isolating & Feeling Very Alone At Times And With Injuries And Verbal Aggression. Also Lina Told Me She Is Being Tracked By Jerry Her Husband With GPS On Her Cell Phone Tracking & GPS Tracking Her Car And She Said Jerry Rye Her Husband Has Some Of His Friends Follow Lina Rye Car Around Town... To The Gym, Food Shopping, Etc. Etc.

Lina
88 is saying goodbye in my hometown.
Yesterday afternoon, Jerry went to party with his four old colleague. His colleague was the man on the left of the pool on Friday afternoon.

He told Jerry that he knew it was me, but didn't talk to me.
At that time, I felt that he stopped intentionally beside us. Want to hear us.

88 is say goodbye in my hometown.
You are a very good teacher who has taught me a lot of knowledge. Thank you once again.
Jan 5, 2020, 1:12 PM

Randles
all is well with me at the pool.... you did not do anything wrong.... i only help you and teaching you how to swim better in the pool.... so maybe it will help save your life some day.... if you fell in the water later in life.
i'm only thinking about your safety.

Randles
yes i think so too.... (you felt that he stopped intentionally beside us) so he stop 2 times by you... to hear us talking about your swimming lessons... maybe jerry send him to the pool ? i do not know him at all. i'm been at this gym 20 years now.
Randles

WindyLina
I’m in the gym now. I am everything ok. I didn’t doing something wrong.
Randles
do you want me to stop by ?

WindyLina
You decide for yourself, it's not my own gym. 88

Randles
you are funny today.... i hope you want to see me.
Jan 5, 2020, 4:06 PM

Randles
your school start on monday... hope you are coming to school too... 88
Jan 6, 2020, 6:48 PM
Randles

hope your friend day of school is going o.k. for you..... as you say.... i'm a good teacher and you a bad or slow student... you are 5th level and going for 6th.... very good job.
Jan 6, 2020, 9:21 PM

Lina
I am starting school today! Thank you for your teaching and help. My oral English has improved a lot. You are my good teacher.

The pictures are good, very meaningful, and your car is beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

Jan 7, 2020, 8:33 AM

Lina
Good morning handsome boy.
Today I am not going to the school. I’m going to the gym now. Have a nice day!
Happy to talking to you.

On Sunday night, Shirley Fen Finn spoke to Jerry on a WeChat video.
Lina removed a message
You are a good friend to me. Thank you!

Lina
I don't want Jerry to misunderstand that we are male and female friends on a date. This gym has two good friends of Jerry, and they often party together. They talk about me, but I don't know them.
Jan 7, 2020, 3:22 PM

Randles
you and me are not on a date.... its a swimming class only.... i'm your friend and english teacher... but i'm sad that you told me that jerry hit's you in arm and face and you are crying walking down the road... sad for me. so you are not alone now.... you have friends in spokane, wa. to turn to if you need help... i'm hear for you Lina.
Jan 8, 2020, 1:20 PM

Randles
yes i'm up now.... hope you are doing good too.
Jan 9, 2020, 4:57 PM

Randles
so hello.... its getting cilder now and maybe 6 - 8 inch of snow and zero temp. outside for this week. i have 2 homes one with internet and one with out it.... if you need help with your english words... i may not be on line... so you may call me for help with words etc. thanks your english teacher.

Randles
yes the word is colder... above getting colder
Jan 9, 2020, 8:21 PM

Lina
I heard heavy snow tomorrow. Spokane is cold now, and I hate snowy weather.
My English words are very small, because I can't remember, and I am lazy too.
Because it is going to snow. You should stay at home. I'll call you tomorrow at the gym.
Jan 12, 2020, 9:53 AM

Lina
Good morning !teacher. Thank you for teaching me English. We are just a teacher-student relationship. I never sought any help. I don't need anything else for help. Except for my bad English.

Lina
Jerry is very nice to me and my daughter. He cares about us everywhere, but he is also a person with shortcomings. He does not like to talk and express emotions. I am very grateful for Jerry's education and financial support for my daughter. He is a good father and good husband in my heart.

Lina
Every family has contradictions in life, and of course we are no exception. I am a person who is grateful. I thank Jerry for being kind to us, for giving us, and for giving me information. I will always be with him and caring for him forever.

Lina
Goodbye. Thank you for taught me English. I don't want to cause you any misunderstanding. Previously, you asked me for some photos, so please destroy them yourself. Thank you again.

Lina
[correct ] I am a grateful person. I thank Jerry for being kind to us, helping us, and trusting me. I will always be with him and always take care of him.
Wed 12:46 PM

Randles
yes i understand your messages... i ask Fen in china not to talk to jerry about this e-mail... this is only a test to me. and if Fen words are true to me..... yes i'm a english teacher and civil rights worker too.... you and jerry are not in trouble at all.... with me or the wa. state as you told me.... he (jerry) hit you and walking down the hi-way (crying) and your friend fen (did not help you by talking to you and jerry at all. yes i and you and jerry and other have short comings in life and misunderstanding too.

Randles
so i hope now... because of me talking to fen.... you will have a better life with jerry... and jerry will stop hitting you and will start talking to you again... on your drive and other things in your life will get better now. as you say In 2020, all dreams come true. for you.
Randles

Randles
Yes shame on me ? For Helping a Friend Lina ? This is the same message I sent to Jerry... Yes I understand you better Fen.... thanks for keeping all my message to you private and confidentiality.... To tell or not to tell? Even the decision “to tell” is not the end of the story, however. Should counselors believe that it is necessary for them to breach someone confidentiality, they must do everything in their power to limit the disclosure and educate the parties concerned about the benefits of maintaining someone's confidentiality.... so this message is below. is the one I send to Jerry Rye.... yes fen thanks again.... Prof. Randles Thompkins - Pro-Se
Randles

Wed 4:58 PM
Randles

Wed 11:15 PM

Lina
Hi Randles. Thank you for your reply. I have been grateful for your help and you are a good teacher. My English is not very good. If I make a mistake, I'm sorry!

In my heart, you have always been a good teacher and friend. After Fin told me something, it scared me. People have two sides, right?

Lina
I always think of you as an empathetic person...........
Sat 11:09 AM

Randles
thank you for saying you are sorry to me lina... you have alway told me the truth and i always tell you the truth... yes a empathetic person thank you for saying so.... i told you that rights in the usa... its o.k. to make mistakes and short comings in life and misunderstanding is part of life. you and me are alway going to be friends for life. i did not tell Fen about you grateful for Jerry's education and financial support for you.... i say to her (Fen fin) if your man pass away in life.... you are not alone... you have a friend with me... and if i marry Fen or not marry... i told her that you (Lina) are alway welcome in my home forever and i will help take care of you.... Randles
Sat 1:12 PM
Rommel

yes i'm at the gym.... lol... and yes i'm a good driver in the snow... i'm warm and a little cold maybe lina.... Lol

Sat 4:10 PM
Randles
Fin told you something about me and it scared me. so can you tell me about it ? your friend ? you told me i can ask you any ? you say i will always tell the truth... thank you and i hope you can see for chinese new year on saturday 25 2020 ?

Chinese New Year falls on Tuesday, February 5 in 2020, and on Saturday, January 25 in 2020. It's Lunar New Year, day 1 of China’s lunar calendar, which is within a day of the second new moon before the spring equinox moon phase.
10:24 AM

Lina
Good morning! Teacher Rommel. Thank you for told me so much real America. The customs between China and the United States are very different. The letter you wrote to Fen and the photos you send. Maybe Fen she misunderstood you.

Lina
She told me about your letter, your photo, and my situation. She thinks what you say, she feels false and unbelievable. So she told me something.
I will go to the gym at noon today and I still hope to see you. We are friends, you are my English teacher and I respect you very much. About Fen. I respect your choice.

Lina
We chat and inevitably talk about Jerry. I am grateful and trusted for Jerry. Thanks for everything he gave us! Give my daughter a good education. No one is perfect, he is 70 years old, like a child, it is normal.

Lina
I am also grateful to you, thank you for being my English teacher and good friend. In the United States, I am unfamiliar with life. You explain it to me. thanks again!

i have removed you from my facebook page... so no one can see or read old messages you send to me.
Feb 8, 2020, 11:30 AM

Randles
hello lina yes i'm still your friend and i did not say to stop going to ESL school to you. i said if you heard that Deer Park has two patients with coronavirus infection. and that you think and worry that you are infected. maybe you need maybe you need to stop going to ESL school now to be safe. asi do not want you to be sick. you are welcome for your concern for me and my family in China. i only want you and family to be safe. as for english you ask for more and better english help.

So i say i will help you more with reading english better. its o.k. you do not anymore help with english. its o.k. ( as you ask lina - i will not help you anymore ) and yes i understand jerry is not happy with you. no one may see you at home. no one may help you with english at home. no one can call you at home. no one can watch a movie with you in Deer Park. its o.k. that you don't want to cause misunderstanding with jerry. its o.k. but all your friends at ESL school can not see you or talk to you or eat dinner with you at your home in Deer Park.

Yes i'm still your friend for life. yes you do have rights in the usa. be safe always randles thompkins your old or pass english teacher.... the miss understand come from facebook... as over 80+ messages say... Lina removed a message.... i did not see your writing to me in the first place as you or facebook removed it before i can read it. i hope you understand this info. so all the old facebook messages are gone now. Your english teacher !
Randles

Randles
Lina removed at message........ you and lina aren't connected on facebook but you may still write to her and send and friends request.
Feb 8, 2020, 3:55 PM

Lina
I didn't say you asked me to stop taking ESL English classes. I just want to tell you that I will always take ESL English classes.

My English is bad. I really don't want to say anything. So as not to cause more and more misunderstandings.
Feb 8, 2020, 5:53 PM

Lina
I am still in the hospital waiting for Jerry's operation. His Wednesday operation was unsuccessful. Thank you for taught me English.
Feb 9, 2020, 1:19 PM

Randles
thank you for writing me back.... sorry to hear that operation was unsuccessful and hope its goes better the next one.... its o.k. to talk to me. i do not feel i have a misunderstandings with you lina. sometime i think... why do i care and have a concern for people and friends so much. may be its not good for me to care about so many person's in the world. i think you are scared ? your husband is not happy and will not understand you may make a mistake in life sometimes. 1. (mistake) an action or judgment that is misguided or wrong. i'm not mad at you. you can still talk to me. but i will not help you with english as you ask me not too. hope you and jerry operation go better this time.... your friend... Randles Thompkins
Randles

if you need someone to talk to you anytime. i'm still hear for you lina. you have my info. be positive lina and hope for the best out come !
Feb 10, 2020, 2:08 PM
Randles

meanwhile in china today... you have 2 cute kittycat lina.
Randles

Feb 10, 2020, 6:38 PM

Lina
thanks again. We are still friends. Take care of yourself.
Feb 11, 2020, 10:55 AM
Randles

yes i hope you and your family are well too.
Feb 11, 2020, 5:50 PM

Lina
谢谢
Randles
hellolina
i hope jerry is better today.
yes thank you too.

Lina
He's better now. He can walk slowly. But haven't eaten yet
I just making my own dinner ，I'm going to eat now!
Randles
yes very nice... you do not eat much after a operation like that..... my be chicken soup .

Lina
88
Randles
thanks for talking lina 88

Lina
Thank you 88

Randles
you are so sweet to me too.... thanks
88
Feb 13, 2020, 11:56 AM

Randles
so about the coronavirus infection... its 14 days now..... are you o.k. or sick and or any more info. about you and your family in china ?
Feb 13, 2020, 1:31 PM

You set the emoji to .
Feb 13, 2020, 4:11 PM

Randles
i do not know if jerry can make it out to buy you a card or not... after being sick.... so happy valentine's day to you from jerry and me too. but not i same meaning as from jerry and mine from friendship to you.

yes it feb.14 in china now. hope you are well this day.

Randles
yes i celebrating valentine's alone at my home in spokane and its o.k. for me ! asi'm alone all the time anyways and i'm a happy person all the time.
Randles

Feb 14, 2020, 2:27 PM

Randles
Happy Valentines Day To You Too.
Feb 14, 2020, 5:55 PM

Lina
Jerry go to the emergency room again this afternoon. We have been waiting for the doctor.
Happy Valentines Day !
My family is safe. They are far away from Wuhan. Thank you!
1

Feb 15, 2020, 12:47 PM
Randles
hello Lina... i'm happy your family and you are safe. jerry emergency room sad for you too. thank you for your valentines day wish for me.

Randles
Lina be careful with you money. i have a lady friend in 1991 got married to a man 65 yrs. old and she in 35 yrs old with kids from her first marrage... the man pass-a-way at 85 years and she 55 yrs. old at his death and married 20 years to him....

so the social security stop and retirement money stopped too... and social security told her.... you can not get half 1/2 your husband social security money un-tell you are 62 years old to get it.... why is this ? because young woman overseas and in the u.s. woman too... 18 to 30 yrs. old woman getting married to 70 to 80 yrs old man... thinking to get 1/2 husband social security money from her age of 30 to her death... maybe money for 50 years.... lina this is only info. for you....

you are a good woman lina and you told me you do not care for jerry money... you love him... i respect you very much for this... as you have a good hearted person.... like you and me it rare now days.... so i hope all will go good in the emergency room.... do not cry and hold your head up... you can talk to me anytime.... your friend for life.... Randles and happy day for you now and in the furture and again thanks for the valentines day wish !

Feb 15, 2020, 4:16 PM

Lina
I am very busy and tired. Talk to you later. thank you.

Lina
We are in the hospital and Jerry has still in hospital tonight

Randles
yes you are busy and tired too.... did not get sick yourself from working to hard and i hope jerry get better too... get some rest lina as you can.... tell me more about it if you want. is jerry a little sick or real sick ? hope you can handle it lina.... if you need help you are you need me to bring you food at the hospital let me know as you may not want to cook because you are tired and call anytime... 590-7*1-5**3 day or night your friend.
Feb 20, 2020, 9:13 AM

Lina
Lina removed a message
Jerry was discharged last Sunday afternoon. He has now recovering. Thank you.

Mrs. Lina Rye & Randles Tompkins 2018
English to Chinese Translation
Your English Language Teacher +你的英语老师+nǐ de yīngyǔlǎoshī
Nanning Shi, Guangxi, China + 南宁市, 广西, 中国 +
nánníngshì , guǎngxī , zhōngguó
Favorite Quotes +有爱就有一切。
June 16, 2016 at 12:25pm

I Did Not Know You Yet Lina But You Are At Chinese Drumming In Town 2016
Deer Park STA in 2016. However, there is a reference to Town-related Chinese cultural activities from that year. The Deer Park Chinese Association organized a dance group that practiced at the WSU Academic Center (SAC) starting from May 29, 2016.

Hello to you 丽娜米 Lina Rye
From Randles汤普金斯 or randlestāngpǔjīnsī
You are my new friend 你是我的新朋友
6/17/18, 1:23 PM

Randles
so hello to you from fitness club hot tub
6/17/18, 9:22 PM

You can now call each other and see information like Active Status and when you've read messages.

Lina
Hello
6/18/18, 11:57 AM

Randles
yes hello to you also.... nice day.... love to see your photo of you in china work unform. this is my navy photo age 24, 1980.
6/19/18, 1:58 PM

Lina
You was a navy and very handsome. I go to the gym right now and I hope to see you
Lina
6/19/18, 6:05 PM

Randles
wow nice photo..... water and snow mt. in the back ground too...... the photo is from ?
Randles

Randles
i'm out of town 2 days....me today lots of wild flowers.... back in town wed. morning... yes hope to see you too..... Your English Language Teacher..你的英语老师nǐ de yīngyǔlǎoshī
6/20/18, 8:40 PM

Randles
Lina
This is a picture I took when I drove back from California last month on my way to spokane

Lina
You shot a lot of beautiful flowers. I went to the gym at 5 o'clock this afternoon. You are not there

Lina
Thank you, you are very nice to me. You are my good theacher
Lina
6/21/18, 5:05 PM

Randles
i'm going to the gym now.... 5;20pm to 5;30 pm see you.
you are fun to talk with too.
6/21/18, 6:57 PM

Randles
maybe we can plan to meet at same time... if you want too.
6/22/18, 12:21 PM

Randles
hello Lina today.... rainned last night. i will be at hot tub 6;15 pm friday... you are my friend.
6/22/18, 10:51 PM

Lina
6/23/18, 11:06 AM
Lina Rye sent you an invite to join Messenger.
Sending messages is fast and more fun on Messenger. Get a link sent to your phone to install the app.

Randles
June 23, 2018 at 11:09 AM
I do not have messenger
Lina
Hello, this is Li Na’s husband. When you have time please call me 5*9 6*7 8**2. Thank you.
6/23/18, 4:33 PM
Randles
sorry i do know you ? you want to talk about is ? this is facebook 4 Lina Rye + 丽娜米i'm a English Teacher + 英语老师i'm randles and i work for men / woman civil rights in usa. Thank You.

Randles
Hello Li Na You may show this message to your husband... thanks ... i do not know him.
6/27/18, 8:05 PM

Randles
so hello to you... love to see the sport car pics of you..... thanks
Lina

6/28/18, 8:36 PM

Randles
me and my kitty at Man ito Park... the park was officially established in April 1904 and has evolved from an undeveloped recreational area with a few flower beds, picnic spots, and a zoo to one of town primary showplaces.
6/29/18, 5:38 AM

Lina
Thank you for tell me about the history of the park. I will go to a friend's house in the morning and go to the gym in the afternoon.
6/29/18, 1:46 PM

Randles
very nice you like it your English Teacher.
6/29/18, 3:13 PM

Lina
I am going to the gym now
6/30/18, 5:20 PM

Randles
yes i'm going to gym at 7;00 pm tonight.
7/1/18, 1:13 PM
Randles

7/2/18, 2:12 PM

Lina
My school is there

1 photoes

Lina Rye sent you an invite to join Messenger.

Lina

Lina Rye invited you to Messenger.
Sending messages is fast and more fun on Messenger. Get a link sent to your phone to install the app.
7/2/18, 7:14 PM

Randles
thanks 4 the pics.... yes i know the address now.... thank you. great photos too
7/3/18, 3:55 PM

Randles
hello Lina from your English Teacher.... remember you are not poor.... you are a good person..... you are a all american girl..... so happy 4th of July to you and your friends.... china is good too.... but you can also nice 4th of july.

7/4/18, 1:43 PM

Lina
My leg is swollen. I have not been to the gym for a few days.
7/5/18, 12:24 PM

Randles
hello hope your leg get better soon.

Randles
Swollen bug bites on your leg ?

Randles
Most bug bites that cause swelling however are localized and cause swelling more because of the body's attempt to isolate and deal with the foreign chemical without letting it spread. Most bug bites that swell are fairly safe, and unless the bite persists and gets worse, they should fade away and stop itching within 2-3 days.

Randles
Lina i hope this info. helps you.... your husband think it is ?
7/8/18, 4:00 PM

Randles
yes hi Lina hope you leg is getting better now ?

Lina
My leg is much better. I am taking a shower in the gym now. I will be at the gym after class tomorrow afternoon. Thank you
Randles
yes i happy you are better .... thank you

Lina
Randles
you are so sweet to me.
love to see more photos of you too.

Lina
You are a good teacher
Randles
yes thank you.... this is me today in the park.

Lina
I like to talking to you
Randles

yes i like talking to you too
me at man ito park japanese garden in town

Lina
Wow you are very handsome
Randles
you are cute too

Lina
Randles
Randles
yes happy too

Lina
I am going take a shower
Randles
very nice..... have fun

Lina
See you tomorrow
Randles
hope too.
i may go out of town 2 days 4 camping
7/9/18, 2:40 PM
Randles
hope you are better today.... you and your leg too
7/9/18, 5:03 PM

Lina
I am good and my leg is good too .
7/10/18, 6:44 PM
Randles
very nice you better.
7/11/18, 3:21 PM
Randles
are you going to hot tub today ?
7/11/18, 4:38 PM

Lina
I will go gym now
Randles
o.k. see you soon
thank you.

my newest photo 2 days ago

Lina
After twenty minutes
Randles
o.k. its good

Lina
Ok
Randles
in 20mins at gym
7/13/18, 1:57 PM

Lina
I am in the gym now
7/15/18, 1:08 PM
Randles
so hello today and hope all is well with you. .... i did not sell the sport car.
7/18/18, 8:36 PM
Randles

Lina
Randles
HELLO TODAY
hope you are o.k.

Lina
I am good
How are you
Randles
i'm good too.... working at home all day today.

Lina
I writing homework
Randles
very nice job.
very hot lately.
love to see more photos of you too.

Lina
I haven’t photos
Randles
older one from cc international

Lina

Randles
nice....
hot tub next.... bye now

Lina
Good

Lina
How about the woman in the middle? She is beautiful
Goodbye! I writing homework
7/20/18, 2:16 PM
Randles
yes she is nice looking.
7/25/18, 8:36 PM
Randles
so hello.... i'm camping 4 days this week
7/27/18, 5:44 PM

Lina
I went to the party this morning and just returned home. There was a traffic jam on the road.

Lina

I will go to the hot bath tonight. 9 o'clock tomorrow morning. My teacher led the students to pick up Hagbury. Welcome to join us.
7/27/18, 7:49 PM

Lina
1
I am in the gym now.

Lina
I’m living the gym
7/31/18, 7:10 PM
Randles
yes hello to you.... very nice pics thank you.... very hot last days.... home how..... hot tub is over now.
i last the gym at 6.45 pm today.... got to gym at 5;30 pm...... going out 4 taco now... or soon
7/31/18, 10:15 PM

Lina
I went to the gym after class today.
I left the gym at four in the afternoon.
Hope everything is fine with you! the weather is too hot for you
See you soon
Good bye
8/8/18, 2:40 PM

Lina
I am in the gym now
Yesterday I want to the Luicetion City

Lina

Long time no see . Are you everything ok ？
I miss you
8/8/18, 7:23 PM
Randles
i'm good ... thank you.... i miss talking to you also.... out of town 10 days camping... thanks
Randles

hot tub soon.... maybe about 9.15 pm tonight.

Lina
It is to late for me. I doing my homework now .
Randles
yes its o.k..... to hot this week ?

Lina
enjoy your hot tub
Randles
nice photos of you too.... the big dog is at ?

Lina
I don't feel hot.
Randles
my home is cool.... but outside over a 100+
how your english class gone this year ?

Lina
Lewiston, Idaho
Randles
very nice

Lina
My English class ended on August 23.
Randles
yes i see.... i how help with englist too
english

Lina
thank you for your help
English
Randles
thing are good 4 you at home too ?

Lina
I don't understand this sentence. I am at home now. I am doing homework
Randles
how are you and your hasband doing this hot summer time.

Lina
I am taking an English class from Monday to Thursday. Jerry goes golfing on Wednesday and Thursday.
Randles
hope you are getting out to the park to see the flower etc.

Lina
You are very busy this summer.
Randles
camping a little.... i'm home again now.

Lina
Ok some day
Randles
you busy too.

Lina
I need to say good bye 。I am writing homework.
Randles
i want to take you Manito Park was officially established in April 1904
o.k. good bye now.... thanks for talking !

Lina
see you next time.
Thanks for talking to me

Lina
Randles
thanks lina

Lina
Randles

you are so nice to me all the time.
8/12/18, 3:40 PM
Randles
hot tub today ? i'm going at 5'15 pm sunday.
8/12/18, 6:47 PM

Lina
The leg on my left is very swollen. I haven't been to the gym for a few days. I need to rest for a few days.
Enjoy hot tub. See you next time.
8/16/18, 2:33 PM
Randles
yes thanks.... your leg is bad again..... you are working out too much ? hope you get better soon.
8/22/18, 10:48 AM

Lina
Tomorrow school party and then finish the class
My school is on holiday since Friday.

Lina

8/22/18, 2:10 PM

Lina

Lina Rye invited you to Messenger.
Sending messages is fast and more fun on Messenger. Get a link sent to your phone to install the app.
Lina Rye sent you an invite to join Messenger.
8/23/18, 2:44 PM
Randles
yes hope you are doing better now.

Lina
Thank you
I’m in the gym now and I am going home
Randles
o.k. is the hot open now ?
i can come see you if you want me too at the gym now

Lina
Ok . I am sitting in the hall.
Randles
o.k. it will take me ten mins. to get to you.

Lina
Ok
See you soon
8/26/18, 2:15 PM
Randles
i got a new bike today.

a very fast one

Lina
Wow. it is very beautiful
Randles
yes thank you... hot tub today ?

Lina
Not yet .
Randles
let me know... maybe i can go too.

Lina
Are you want to go?
Randles
yes i have the car info 4 you.

Lina
4pm?
Randles
o.k. 4 pm is good 4 me

Lina
Ok
See you soon
Randles
o.k. love to see pics of you in china

Lina
I will there before 4pm
Randles
o.k. thank you me friend

Lina
I will show you
Randles
thank you.

I the park today

Lina
Anytime
Randles
see you 4 pm today

Lina
You are happy boy
Ok
Randles
yes and you a happy girl

Lina
Where are you now?
Randles
at home now with my kitty

Lina
Are we going to the gym now?
Randles
4 pm

Lina
Ok?
Randles
see at 4 pm is good

Lina
Ok
See you at 4pm
Randles
you are so nice to me.

Lina
Randles

Lina
See you later
Randles

Lina
Randles
bye too
8/27/18, 8:09 PM
Randles

this photo is in town 2 years ago
8/28/18, 12:30 PM

Lina
Wow. look at the very cold in Spokane.
I will go gym at the 1.30pm.
Are you want to go?
8/28/18, 8:47 PM
Randles
not home today.... in town now... thanks
8/28/18, 10:24 PM

Lina

My professional photo
8/29/18, 2:09 PM
Randles
very nice one.... how are you today..... you want to help me with my tax ?

8/29/18, 3:17 PM
Randles
Li..... The meaning of the name Li is Pretty, Powerful. The origin of the name Li is Chinese. This is the culture in which the name originated, or in the case of a word, the language. If used for a female, this name means "pretty." For a male, "powerful."

Lina
I went to Shaoling's house this morning. We walked out from Shaoling's house. Her neighbor's dog jumped out of the fence and wanted to bite us. Jump first and want to bite Shaoling. Shaoling used a hat to drive it away. Then when it jumped up and bit me, I fell and shouted. Her neighbor came out to stop and apologize.

Lina
How can I help you with tax?
Do you want to go to the gym today? What time you want to go? I can do it any time.
8/30/18, 2:53 PM

Lina
I’m in the gym now.
9/1/18, 1:00 PM

Lina
Hello there! I am at the gym now. Do you have time to come over?
我们可以出去玩一天。如果你有空闲时间。
We can go out for some day. If you have freetime.
9/1/18, 2:22 PM
Randles
yes hello today.... it is nice of you to have free time 4 me.... i'm going to the hottub today at 3pm saturday.... thanks 4 the birthday wishes too.
9/1/18, 3:48 PM

Lina
I am already home. Because today is the weekend no one is there
Randles
its o.k. hope you have a nice weekend too.....
9/3/18, 10:58 AM

Lina
I will go gym at 1:00pm
Are you want to go ?
9/4/18, 5:49 PM
Randles
sorry thank you.... i'm at the gym up north spokane today..... thank you....

Lina
Randles

Lina

Randles
you o.k.
i'm going to dinner soon.
hope you are doing good my friend....

Lina
My face is allergic without going to the gym today
Thank you
Goodbye

Lina
9/5/18, 1:28 PM
Randles
hope you get better soon.
9/6/18, 7:53 AM
Lina Rye sent you an invite to join Messenger.

Lina

Lina Rye invited you to Messenger.
Sending messages is fast and more fun on Messenger. Get a link sent to your phone to install the app.
9/7/18, 4:47 PM
Randles
i'm good today.... going to the fair next !

Lina
I’m in the gym now

Lina

Lina
Have fun.
Randles
thank you.... i left the hot tub already today.

Lina
We missed
I am living now
Randles
sorry i missed you
as you are fun to talk too.

Lina
I am leaving now
Randles
o.k. dinner time 4 you.

Lina
No only me here
Randles
?
you at gym now

Lina
Yes. I go take a shower.
Randles
very nice... i wash your back 4 you...

Lina
Thank you. No dinner for me.
Randles
you going home to eat.... i think

Lina
My friend had lunch at my house, I was too full.
Randles
very nice.... sound fun

Lina
I have lunch at three o'clock
Randles
yes i ate already too.

Lina
I am going to take a shower now
Bye bey
Randles
thanks 4 talking bye
9/11/18, 3:23 PM
Randles
your daughter got married yesterday. She is currently studying for a Ph.D. in California.... i do not see you in the photos.... you did not go to her wedding ?

Lina
I did not go back to China, I did not attend her Chinese wedding. I have attended her church wedding in the United States.
9/12/18, 7:18 PM
Randles
very nice.... i'm thinking you said she in calif..... anyways she looking very nice in her chinese wedding.... i'm happy 4 her and you too.
9/13/18, 1:48 PM

Lina
Thank you. you are very nice man.

Lina

Lina
9/13/18, 5:48 PM
Randles
thanks and you are a very nice woman.... and i'm happy to help you with your english too....
Randles
Randles
me and my kitty
9/14/18, 4:28 PM
Randles
hot tub closed last night.... is it open today ?

Lina
I don't know, I haven't been to the gym for a few days.
I want to ask you to have a buffet at noon next Tuesday. Do you have time?
We meet at the gym in the morning and go to the pearl buffet together. ok??
9/15/18, 4:08 PM
Randles
so hello... i do not know about tuesday yet.... my best days to go out are wed. thru saturday ! and pearl buffet is at ?
1
PEARLY China Buffet 8721 S. Lincoln Rd., Deer Park, WA 99208

Lina
If you don't have time on Tuesday, we can change the time or cancel. No problem.

Lina
Thank you for helping me in teaching me English. I just want to say thank you.
Randles
how about any day wed. thur sat. ?
9/17/18, 8:53 PM
Randles
hope all is well with you today ?
9/21/18, 1:52 PM
Randles
so happy birthday to your man jerry rye..... hope you both have a good and happy day !

Lina
Thank you. we just ate lunch go home .
Randles
very nice....
birthday cake and ice cream next ?

Lina
We will eat ice cream cake at night. I want to go to the gym to lose weight now.
I hope to see you in.
Randles
yes i see... gym now.
so you at the gym now ? let me know time ?

Lina
I am living now.
Randles
o.k. see you in 30 mins.

Lina
See you at gym.
Randles
9/21/18, 4:50 PM

Randles
yes hello today.... no pics to see.... gone
o.k. the pics are back now... funny facebook

9/22/18, 12:29 PM
Randles
me downtown water falls and clock tower !
9/22/18, 2:29 PM

Lina
We just got home from the valley fest.
Have fun
9/23/18, 4:36 PM
Randles
very nice.... i did valley fest.... saturday very nice time too. p.s. i gave away 1.000 hawaiian lay to the kids. from the old show gun place.

Lina
You are a good man. I am cooking dinner. I will go to the gym after dinner.
Randles
very nice thank you ..... i buy the old showgun warehouse land in spokane 4 years... so i got 1.000 hawaiian lay....

old pics from inside old showgun... yes i clean it up ..... over 20 weeks to clean up.... thanks 4 your nice words to me.
9/23/18, 5:48 PM

Lina
I just finished my dinner. I will be at the gym before seven o'clock.
Is it your old house? It is very clean.
9/24/18, 12:29 PM
Randles
yes hello thank you..... i'm your dog barking ..... bow wow..... come take me 4 a talk daily....lol

Lina
Thank you for the conversation last night. Say thank you for your good friend.I am in the class now.
9/24/18, 7:02 PM
Randles
you are welcome.... you talk about having a dog..... so i say.... bow wow..... come take me 4 a walk....lol

Lina
I like dogs, but I don't have a dog. Jerry likes cats because he doesn't have to go out.
I am in the gym now.
Randles
i'm being funny.... i'm your dog now..... you can take me 4 a walk...
bow wow.... lina

Lina
Today is the Mid-Autumn Festival.
In China
Randles

4 you

Lina
Hahaha, you are fany. I like your humor.
Randles
thank you.

Lina
Thank you so much.
Randles
you are a fun woman to talk with too.

Lina
I am not very talkative. I am a relatively boring person.
Randles
i think you are fun 4 me..... and you are cute too.

Lina
I'm going to take a shower. Goodbye
Randles
o.k. bye now.... thanks 4 talking to me.

Lina

Randles
bye now..... you are not relatively boring person to me..... i love talking to you and see the photos from you. to help you with your english.
9/25/18, 6:04 PM

Lina
No I am at home.
Are you want to go eat lunch Tomorrow ?
Randles
yes sound nice
Timber Creek Grill Buffet maybe in valley ?

Lina
Ok see you at gym .
Randles
time ?

Lina
Before 12:30
Randles
o.k. you want me at the gym like 11 am ?
or 11.30 or noon ?

Lina
you decide
11:30am ok
Randles
o.k. gym at 11;30 am.... very nice.... hope you are well today ?

Lina
Ok Thank you. see you tomorrow morning.
Randles
nice.... looking at a map of your home town.... wow population of 6,913,800

Lina
Yes very big City.
Randles
nice... town population is 220,000 only

Lina
Deer Park small town and country .
Randles
yes it is.... i'm born in town 1960

Lina
You are country men
A Mae
Randles
country man.... but live in the city boy !
lol

Lina
No.look like country man

Lina
Randles
thank you lina

Lina
lol you are welcome
Randles
you do not look like a relatively boring person .... as you think you are !

Lina
I am not a smart woman. I am a stupid person.
Randles
very sad..... you are a smart woman to me.

Lina
Ok say good bye see you tomorrow.
Randles
bye
in china you are very smart.... you are only slow in usa.... as you learn english better !

Lina
Good night have a nice day dream

Lina
Randles
yes you too.... sweet dreams always.
Randles

Lina
I went to the hospital this afternoon and I will injected my leg on Thursday afternoon. So tomorrow I will not go out with you after class. Thank you for helping me learn English.
Thank you again
10/4/18, 1:24 PM
Randles
yes hello... hope you are o.k. too.... thank you 4 lunch the other day too.... i hope you enjoyed yourself... with all the english names animals...

pics 4 you to show your english friends in china or overseas etc.
10/10/18, 6:04 PM

Lina
Hi I am in the gym now
Randles
yes hello.... hope you are good ?

Lina

Randles
i left gym 20 mins ago

Randles
you are still my close friend.... your english teacher !
i'm still here 4 you.

Lina
Thank you very much
I am going swimming now.

Lina
Randles
o.k. have fun.

10/15/18, 8:53 PM
Randles
hope all is well with you and your legs ?
10/24/18, 9:37 PM

Lina
thank you. My leg are much better now.
After class I will go to the gym tomorrow.
Are you going to the gym tomorrow?
Are you everything ok?
10/31/18, 3:58 PM

Lina
Wow you are very luck and happy.
long time no see. Are you all right?

11/6/18, 1:44 PM
Randles
i'm o.k..... you not talking to much to me.... nice photo thank you.
11/6/18, 6:18 PM
Randles

i do not know best time to meet you at hot tub...
11/10/18, 3:26 PM
Randles
i made it home o.k.... it started snow wow...

i parked the car 4 winter now.

hope all is well with you too.... your english teacher in 2018
11/13/18, 6:52 PM

Lina
I go to school and gym every day. Secondary rehabilitation training every week. When winter comes, you have to take care.

11/21/18, 5:18 PM
Randles
happy thanksgiving dinner to you.

hope you have a good day too.
11/22/18, 11:48 AM

Lina
Happy thanksgiving 感恩节快乐
11/24/18, 2:15 PM
Randles
谢谢 - 丽娜是个很好的朋友。
12/11/18, 11:35 AM
Randles
hope you are o.k.

Lina
I am going to the gym now. I want to see you at gym.
I am okay thank you
12/11/18, 3:48 PM
Randles
i'm not in town today..... sorry.. yesi love to see and talk to you also... your friend !
12/11/18, 8:52 PM

Lina
Hope everything is fine with you! I am at the gym every day.
Merry Christmas

12/12/18, 5:09 PM
Randles
very nice... i left the gym about 30 mins ago today
12/18/18, 3:07 PM
Randles
i love to show you very nice x-mas lights in spokane... if you like to see ? you can drive too.... let me know ? like 4pm to 6pm at night.
12/24/18, 11:43 AM

Lina
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Lina
12/27/18, 11:35 AM
Randles
yes thank you.... Merry Christmas and Happy New Year and Chinese New Year also Tuesday, February 5 2019.... sorry you missed the lights.

hope all is well with you too.
12/28/18, 7:12 PM

Lina
Today is my birthday We went to the airport casino to have a buffet.
Wish you a Happy New Year

Lina
12/30/18, 2:27 PM
Randles
yes happy birthday to you also... very nice day 4 you.

this is a fireplace.... wow

new years years too.
Jan 3, 2019, 11:31 AM
Randles

Jan 3, 2019, 9:55 PM

Lina
China's night scene is very beautiful. Deer Park is like a big countryside
Jan 4, 2019, 1:09 PM
Randles
yes very nice one
Jan 31, 2019, 4:09 PM
Randles
so hello and happy end of Jan 31 2019
Randles

May 21, 2019, 8:22 PM
Randles
hello to you... hope all is well with you too. posted my new pics today wild flowers etc.

Lina
You are very handsome. I am in Los Angeles now. I will go back in town next month.
Jun 12, 2019, 7:40 PM
Randles
you are sweet too.... love to see some pics of you in LA. hope all is well with you too. you go to china to in march ? i miss talking and helping you with you english too....

Happy New Year 2020 Wishes Lina from Me.

Randles
As new year is celebrated on the very first day of every year and there is a national holiday on this particular occasion in some countries. Everyone take the advantage of that holiday and celebrate this day with their loved ones. Every community in this world or every single religion present on this earth celebrate Happy new year with full of fun and excitement. Start the first day of a New year with happiness by sharing your feelings with the other person who is very close to your heart through these amazing Happy new year wishes. As wishes are very important you can express your care, love by wishing that person.
Randles

Jan 1, 2020, 11:44 AM

Lina
Happy New year
In 2020, all dreams come true.
something or someone has made an extremely favourable impression of you.

Lina
I am at my friend’s house now
About 2:30pm, I will be here.
Randles
can i meet you today at ?
gym 2;30 pm ?

Lina

Lina removed a message
You are a good friend to me. Thank you!

Yes shame on me ? For Helping a Friend Lina ? This is the same message I sent to Jerry... Yes I understand you better Fen.... thanks for keeping all my message to you private and confidentiality.... To tell or not to tell? Even the decision “to tell” is not the end of the story, however. Should counselors believe that it is necessary for them to breach someone confidentiality, they must do everything in their power to limit the disclosure and educate the parties concerned about the benefits of maintaining someone's confidentiality.... so this message is below. is the one I send to Jerry Rye.... yes fen thanks again.... Prof. Randles Thompkins - Pro-Se
Randles

Wed 4:58 PM
Randles

Wed 11:15 PM

Lina
Hi Randles. Thank you for your reply. I have been grateful for your help and you are a good teacher. My English is not very good. If I make a mistake, I'm sorry!
In my heart, you have always been a good teacher and friend. After Fin told me something, it scared me. People have two sides, right?

Lina
I always think of you as an empathetic person...........
Sat 11:09 AM

Randles
thank you for saying you are sorry to me lina... you have alway told me the truth and i always tell you the truth... yes a empathetic person thank you for saying so.... i told you that rights in the usa... its o.k. to make mistakes and short comings in life and misunderstanding is part of life. you and me are alway going to be friends for life.

i did not tell Fen about you grateful for Jerry's education and financial support for you.... i say to her (Fen) if your man pass away in life.... you are not alone... you have a friend with me... and if i marry Fen fin or not marry... i told her that you (Lina) are alway welcome in my home forever and i will help take care of you.... Randles
Sat 1:12 PM
Randles

Why are you scared Lina? After Shirlee Fen fin told me something about you, it scared me. So she told you ? Lina i have no answer for you... o.k. but i never talk to Shirlee in-person... we only sent text to each other in China... So you are still scared ? No Answers from Lina ever.

Min-hun Ceremonial Marriage
Mín-hūn, also known as a ghost marriage or spirit marriage, is a traditional Chinese custom where one or both parties in a marriage are deceased.

This practice, which dates back to the Han dynasty (206 BC–220 AD), is rooted in beliefs about ancestor worship and the afterlife, where it is thought that an unmarried person's spirit may feel lonely and cause harm if not properly paired.

The primary purpose is to ensure the deceased's contentment in the afterlife and prevent them from haunting the living.

The ceremony, known as míng hūn (冥婚), involves rituals similar to a living marriage, including the use of a matchmaker, the negotiation of dowry (often in the form of paper tributes offered to the dead), and a formal banquet.

The deceased can be represented by a spirit tablet, a paper effigy, or, in some cases, their actual corpse.

A crucial part of the ritual, especially in historical and rural practices, is the reburial of the deceased bride's remains within the groom's grave to symbolize their union.

While the practice is illegal and very rare in modern China, it persists in some rural areas, particularly in northern China.

The tradition has been linked to a black market for female corpses, driven by a significant gender imbalance and the demand for brides, both living and dead.
Cases have been reported where families have dug up graves to sell a deceased daughter's body for a ghost marriage, sometimes leading to further exploitation when the body is resold.

The practice has also been associated with criminal activities, including murder, to obtain corpses for sale.

The custom is not limited to China; similar traditions exist in other cultures, such as in Sudan, India, and parts of Europe, though the specific rituals and beliefs vary.

In Taiwan, the tradition differs, with a deceased woman typically being married to a living man, and the man being free to remarry.

Lina I feel you and me are close friends over 10 years now. Both of are chakras mind body and soul are together now in life. This refers to energy are centers in the body that are believed to influence physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being.

These chakras are positioned along the spine, from the base to the crown of the head, and each has its own unique characteristics, including color, element, and psychological themes.

The idea of East meet West and our chakras becoming "one" is often associated with the concept of spiritual awakening or enlightenment, where the energy centers are in perfect harmony, allowing for a deeper connection to the self and the universe.

In summary Lina, You and Me and Are seven chakras are energy centers in the body that, when balanced, contribute to a state of harmony and well-being. The concept of the chakras becoming "one" is a metaphor for achieving a balanced and harmonious state of being, which is often associated with spiritual growth and enlightenment as you and me are close friends over 10 years now..

In Chinese traditions, the focus is often on the balance of yin and yang, and the flow of qi through meridians. Practices such as tai chi and qigong are designed to cultivate and balance this energy, leading to a state of physical and spiritual harmony.

While the term "chakra" is not commonly used in traditional Chinese philosophy, there are analogous concepts such as meridians and energy centers that are central to practices like acupuncture and qigong. These systems focus on the flow of vital energy, or "qi," through the body. The idea of "body and flesh becoming one" is more aligned with the goals of certain meditative and energy practices, where the practitioner aims to harmonize the physical and energetic aspects of the body.

Hi Randles,
Thank you for your message to me.

I’m sorry, but my English is not very good, and I couldn’t fully understand everything you wrote there were too many ellipses, and some parts were unclear to me. So please allow me to respond simply by expressing my own thoughts.

We met at the gym nearly ten years ago. At that time, I truly was alone I didn’t know anyone, and I had no friends in the community. I went to the gym twice a day just to pass the time.

I started talking with you because I wanted to learn English. You were always patient and polite, and I sincerely appreciated that. I saw you as an English teacher, and I tried to learn from you with respect.

To this day, my English is still limited, and I don’t feel comfortable speaking on the phone in English. I have difficulty expressing myself clearly. But please understand I am not weak or helpless. I used to be a professional basketball player. I don’t share my struggles easily with anyone, and I have never asked anyone including Jerry for help.

Life is not always easy. We all have our challenges and make our own choices.
I’m focused on my own life now, and I hope you will do the same. I truly wish you good health and peace. Thank you again for the help you gave me with English.

As we say in Chinese: “Once a teacher, always a teacher.”
Take care,
Lina
p.s. don't forget to put me in your will... before you die... lol July 4th 2025 !

Show less