Control & Shame is not of Jesus Christ

And you also were included in Christ when you heard the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation. When you believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit.

Once you believe the Gospel - Jesus died for your sins fully and rose again - you become eternally saved forever God doesn't UNDO what He did for you and you never earned it so you can't ever lose something you didn't even earn in the first place

Shame guilt control are tactics of Narcissists and Sociopaths who seek to destroy people. Jesus will only ever teach you through love, grace and His unending devotion to you. Anything else is the enemy lying in your ear or religious trauma leftovers. It's by GRACE THRU FAITH NOT YOURSELVES