Focusing on This One Thing Will Transform Your Marriage

Most couples focus on outcome goals: “I don’t want us to fight anymore.”

But outcomes depend on someone else. And you can’t control your spouse’s reactions.

That’s why identity goals are so much more powerful. An identity goal sounds like this: “I’m becoming a person who manages my emotions better in conflict.”

See the shift? You’re focusing on what you can control—your mindset, your responses, your growth—instead of what you can’t.

And when you change the way you show up, the marriage dynamic begins to change too.

That’s the work we do in Marriage in Bloom—a six-month marriage intensive designed to help you and your spouse build lasting change from the inside out.

Learn more here: https://debbiecaudle.com/therapy-for-christian-couples/

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