The Hidden Attitude That Slowly Kills a Marriage

Your spouse isn’t stupid. And you’re not either. But sometimes, the way we talk to each other sends a very different message.

Sarcasm. Condescension. Dismissing their perspective with a tone that says, “Really? You thought that was a good idea?”
Even if we never say the words stupid, dumb, or idiot—the meaning still drips through.

When one partner feels constantly devalued, unheard, or talked down to, it eats away at your foundation of trust and respect in the marriage. Over time, it doesn’t just wound—it destroys.

A thriving marriage doesn’t require sameness. It requires appreciation for difference. Your spouse doesn’t need your correction as much as they need your respect.

That’s exactly what I teach couples inside Marriage in Bloom—a six-month marriage intensive designed to rebuild connection, repair broken patterns, and restore the value you once felt in each other.

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