E06: Manufacturing Loneliness - How Society Ensures Our Disconnection

Why does loneliness persist, even after all the therapy, self-help, and "inner work"?

This episode of The Loneliness Industry dives deep into the structural roots of loneliness—showing how Western capitalist values like independence, competition, control, and self-sufficiency actively undermine our ability to form meaningful connection.

This episode tells you what the self-help world won’t:
Loneliness isn’t just emotional — it’s engineered.
By capitalism.
By culture.
By the values we’re taught to worship: independence, control, self-sufficiency.
We talk:
• What intimacy really is (and why sex can be completely devoid of it)
• Why therapy alone can’t fix disconnection
• How capitalism manufactures loneliness — and then shames you for feeling it
• What it means to be pathologized for having basic human needs

Guest-starring philosophers from several countries:
Michel Foucault (on power and the construction of pathology)
bell hooks (on love, mutuality, and community)
Hannah Arendt (on loneliness and totalitarianism)
Lauren Berlant (on cruel optimism and affective structures)
Gabor Maté (on connection and health)
John Bowlby (on attachment and emotional development)
Dan Siegel, Stephen Porges, Louis Cozolino (on relational neuroscience)

If you’ve ever felt ashamed for needing others, or wondered why intimacy feels so hard in modern life—this episode is for you.

🔗 Listen, reflect, and reclaim what capitalism taught you to despise: your need to be seen, held, and connected.

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