Why You Feel Powerless In Your Marriage

If someone else holds the keys to your happiness… what happens when they lose them?
When we make another person responsible for our well-being—our mood, our peace, our joy—we hand them a power they were never meant to carry.

It might sound romantic to say, "You complete me," but the truth is, when your emotional state depends entirely on someone else’s behavior, you’ve surrendered your agency. You’re no longer an active participant in your own healing—you’ve become a hostage to someone else’s growth.

This isn’t about blame. It’s about responsibility.
Because if your peace depends on them changing… what happens when they don’t?

Healing begins when we reclaim what we’ve outsourced.
Not control—but ownership.

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