Changing yourself is hard. Changing someone else? Almost impossible. 🔁🧠

Growth hurts.

Breaking old habits, unlearning toxic patterns, facing your own flaws —
that takes courage, time, and real inner work. 💥🪞

So imagine thinking you can change someone else
when they’re not even willing to see what needs changing.

Love can inspire.
Support can guide.

But no amount of love can force transformation in someone who’s not ready to grow. 🛑💔

You can pour your heart into them.

Be patient, loyal, forgiving…

But if they’re not doing the inner work,
you’ll burn out trying to fix what only they can face. 🔥😔

Focus on healing yourself.
Lead by example.

But never make someone else’s change your responsibility. 💯

Because at the end of the day:
If changing yourself is already a battle,
imagine trying to fight someone else’s.

🔁 Tag someone who’s finally choosing themselves

🧠 Save this if you’re done trying to fix people who won’t fix themselves

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