Hidden Voices and Same-Sex Attraction in Asian Societies | Bryan Shen | The Dr. J Show

In this episode of The Dr. J Show, counselor and Catholic missionary Bryan Shen shares his journey from fighter pilot to therapist, driven by personal struggle and a desire to help others. Drawing from his work across Asia, he explains the unique challenges faced by those with same-sex attraction in conservative religious communities and the importance of education in overcoming stigma. Bryan offers a compassionate look at how faith, identity, and family dynamics intersect, emphasizing the need for understanding and support within traditional cultures.

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Bryan Shen is a professional counsellor and registered supervisor with the Singapore Association for Counselling (SAC) and a lay Catholic missionary since 1997. Fluent in English and Thai, he has counselled seminarians and religious communities across Southeast Asia.

He speaks widely to Christian and Muslim audiences on issues related to non-heterosexuality, aiming to dispel misconceptions. Bryan also trains professionals through casework and international conferences, and serves on the board of the IFTCC. He is a life member of CCAT and ACCS.

00:00 Understanding Same-Sex Attraction in Different Cultures
03:24 Brian Shen's Journey and Professional Background
08:07 Cultural Differences in Addressing Same-Sex Attraction
11:27 Not wanting the LGBTQ Identity and the Risks of Coming Out
16:02 Exploring the Origins & Contributing Factors of Same-Sex Attraction
23:49 The Role of Family Dynamics and Emotional Conditioning
29:31 Empowering Communities to Support Hidden Individuals
40:23 Navigating Parental Perspectives in LGBTQ Issues
45:59 Education as a Catalyst for Change
52:06 The Dangers of Misinformation and Conversion Therapy
55:43 Personal Struggles: A Journey of Self-Acceptance
01:01:19 The Impact of Faith and Community on Healing
01:09:29 Understanding Non-Sexual Consequences of Non-Heterosexuality
01:15:41 Cultural Pressures and Perfectionism in Asian Communities
01:21:18 The Role of Faith in Addressing Societal Issues
01:26:13 The Importance of Humility in Personal and Community Growth
01:30:02 Empathy Through Personal Struggles
01:34:10 Common Origins of Sexual Brokenness
01:39:29 The Role of the International Foundation for Therapeutic and Counseling Choice

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