Position 69 Explained – Oral Sex, Pleasure, Connection, and Real Talk | In Bed With Kate 💋

Position 69 (also known as sixty-nine) is one of the most intimate and erotic sex positions, combining mutual oral sex, clitoral stimulation, deep throat techniques, and shared pleasure — all at once. In this video, we dive into how to do 69 right, common mistakes, how to communicate during oral sex, and ways to make it more pleasurable, safe, and satisfying for both partners.

Whether you're looking to spice up your sex life, learn about mutual pleasure positions, or explore more intimate oral techniques, this video breaks it all down — with sex-positive advice, real talk about intimacy, and practical tips for better sex.

We'll cover:

What is position 69 and how to try it comfortably

Variations: side-by-side, top/bottom, standing 69

Best positions for different body types and energy levels

Oral sex tips: licking, sucking, breathing, rhythm

Why mutual pleasure matters in partnered sex

The psychology of giving and receiving at the same time

Common myths and insecurities around 69

How to talk about fantasies with your partner

Safety, hygiene, and consent tips

Perfect for couples exploring erotic connection, sexual chemistry, and building better oral sex experiences.

👉 If you've ever asked:

How do I do 69 properly?

Is 69 awkward or amazing?

Can we improve oral sex as a couple?
— This one’s for you.

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