Did God Send Them… or Did Your Wounds Choose Them?

It felt like love.
It looked like connection.
But now you’re wondering… was it really from God?

When our hearts haven’t healed, we don’t choose from peace—we choose from patterns.
And those patterns are often rooted in pain.

The truth is, not everyone who enters your life is God-sent.
Sometimes, it’s your unhealed wounds doing the choosing.
And those wounds will whisper, familiar is safe, even when it’s destructive.

Healing changes that.

When you heal, you stop chasing intensity and start listening for clarity.

You no longer ask, “Did God send them?”
You ask, “Does this align with the wholeness He wants for me?”

If you’re tired of repeating cycles, Marriage in Bloom can help—whether you’re walking the journey alone or with your spouse.
Let’s get to the root… and grow something real.

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