The BBQ Test: How to Vet Your Band of Brothers | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the crisis of male isolation, emphasizing the need for strong male connections. He introduces the "BBQ Test," a framework to evaluate potential brothers-in-arms based on five key questions: enjoyment, resilience, depth, principle, and capability.

Michler challenges men to reject cultural lies about lone masculinity, urging them to build networks of virtuous men. He shares personal insights and offers the Iron Council as a resource for forging these bonds. Join Ryan to discover how to cultivate meaningful, growth-oriented relationships.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - The Struggle of Male Connection
02:39 - Importance of Frameworks and Networks
05:06 - The BBQ Test Concept
07:32 - Question 1 & 2: Enjoyment and Resilience
10:01 - Question 3: Deep Thinker or Stooge
12:21 - Question 4: Principled Man
16:44 - Question 5: Capability
18:43 - Evaluating Your Circle
21:08 - The Iron Council Solution
23:30 - Call to Action

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