Healing Frequencies that time forgot... and why it is so important to men and women.

One thing many younger people don’t understand about the dating landscape is that men and women have really never met and formed relationships from cold approaches. It is a fantasy of both sides that the way men used to meet women is to walk up to some total stranger in a public place and start up a conversation about random bullshit.

The way couples used to form is you’d already know someone in your family or social group, and much later in history via the workplace, and you’d be around that person all the time and people would naturally gravitate towards those whom they were mutually attracted to. This modern digital world has so thoroughly fucked up normal human relations that people have almost no opportunity to do this anymore, and work has become an absolute minefield for men only.

Things used to be far more equal. Guys and girls who were suited for each other had very little trouble finding one another, marrying and having a family together. Now, because of the destruction of common spaces due to “diversity” and dystopic digitization of every aspect of life, as well as the tandem ability and society-wide encouragement of women to hook up with scores of random men, many far above their natural station, a huge majority of women have been socially engineered to believe they deserve nothing less than a man they never could have dreamed of securing in a natural world, and a huge majority of men have been denigrated, scorned or ignored and pushed completely out of the dating market when they should by rights have the wife and family they desire.

The whole thing is fucking terrible and it breaks my heart.