Your Kids Should Feel The Most Safe With You

Don't make them afraid to be themselves around you.

They should feel the most safe with you.

There was father I worked with in Men Of Fire, my father transformation program who told me on our first call that he didn't know why he was angry all the time. He had no reason to be.

His kids would just irritate him constantly over the smallest things and now they avoid him. He used to be much happier and enjoyed life but he's been in a funk for years. He can't seem to enjoy anything. He realized this and wanted to change.

After slowly replacing his habits one by one, teaching him to be disciplined and consistent with his health and personal development, completing daily exercises to shift perspective and surrounding him with positive fathers he did change.

On a Zoom call with all of us he looked different. Smiling, happy, and free. He told us stories of being present with his kids the past weekend and even a moment when they said something to piss him off, but he didn't snap. He just smiled.

This is the change that feels best. The feeling you get when you make your family members feel great about themselves instead of worse about themselves is beautiful.

That change can happen for anyone no matter how angry, frustrated, or miserable you think you are. The prescription is always the same. Build youself to build your family.

If you want to work with me inside Men Of Fire to get your fire back and become the lighthouse for your family, tap the link in bio to apply to Men Of Fire. Time to RISE.

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