Tired of Fighting? Shift Your Marriage Goals from “What” to “Who”

Most couples say, “I just want a better marriage.”
But vague hopes don’t change marriages—clear identities do.

What if instead of saying, “We want to fight less,” you declared,
“We are a couple who resolves conflict peacefully.”
That’s the difference between outcome-based goals and identity-based transformation.

Quick tip:
Ask yourself, “Who am I becoming as a spouse?”
When you change how you see yourself, you change how you act.

If you’ve lost yourself in the tension, the burnout, or the blame… it’s time to rediscover who you were meant to be—together.

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Because a thriving marriage doesn’t come from wishing—it comes from becoming.

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