family disintegrate reason

Quarrel 6 english
REASON MIS UNDERSTANDING BETWEEN WIFE AND HUSBAND
1. हम शादी के बाद पुरानी झुंझलाहट लेकर चलते हैं हम नई बात से उससे दूर नहीं हो पाते हैं ….We carry old ting after marriage we are not able to argest with new thing
2शादी के बाद जीवन में प्राथमिकता निर्धारित नहीं कर पते है // जिस क्षण हम शादी करते हैं हमारी प्राथमिकता सुखी पारिवारिक जीवन होना चाहिए, आराम के बाद Eph 4:31-32 ….Setting wong priority in life after marriage //the moment we get married our priority should be happy family life rest afterward Eph 4:31-32
3. वित्तीय समस्या//साझेदार के साथ साझा करें आप सहायता प्राप्त कर सकते हैं ….Financial proble//share with partner u can get help
4. शैतानी प्रभाव//गलतफहमी//परिस्थिति//प्रभु से उत्सुकता से प्रार्थना करे ….Satnic effect//misunderstanding//circumstance//pray to lord eagerly
5. साझा करने की कमी//परिवार के हिस्से के दो थिंकटैंक है और समस्या हल हो सकती है ..... Lack of sharing//two thinkingtank of family share and problem may be solved
6.सीमा में झगड़ा कभी भी ढीले शब्द मत कहो तुम मेरा घर छोड़ दो // मुझे अपना चेहरा फिर से मत दिखाना ….Quarrel in limit Never say loose words u leave my house//don’t show me your face again
7.अगर हम बच्चों के सामने लड़ते हैं//बच्चों के सामने कभी नहीं लड़ हमेशा एकांत जगह मे झगड़ा करे ….If we fight in front of children//never fight in front of children always quarrel in lne place
8. कोई भी शादी से पहले रिश्ता को कभी नहीं सोचे या अन्य कोई सोच को महत्व नहीं दे या कोई दुख भरा गाना ना सुने 1 कोरन 12:13 …No thinking extra marrital affair other is neglect of no importance1 coran 12:13
9.आपस में उस विषय पर बात करें जिस विषय पर घर में झगड़ा हो, इधर-उधर न रहें Speak with each other on topic which there is quarrel in house don’t linger here and there
10. हमें अपनी गलती स्वीकार करनी होगी//कभी यह नहीं सोचना चाहिए कि मैंने अपनी प्रतिष्ठा को खो दिया है eph 4:31-32 We have to accept our mistake//don’t ever think I loose my prestige eph 4:31-32
11. हमें अपने गलत व्यवहार के लिए माफी मांगनी होगी // या कहें कि आपको पार्टनर में क्या पसंद नहीं है जहां eph 4:31-32 We have to ask apology for our wrong behavior //or say what u dontlike in partner where eph 4:31-32
12.किसी पुरुष या महिला के साथ झगड़े में संबंध न बनाएं….Don’t bring relationship with in quarrel either male or female
13. ताना या गलत शब्द न दें……Don’t give tana or mis word
14. प्यार की बातें:- पत्नी के साथ अकेले में बात करते हुए आराम से शांत समय बिताएं......Love talk:-share relaxed quiet time with wife talking in private
15. पत्नी को बार-बार उपहार दें .....Give gift to wife frequently
16. एक-दूसरे की तारीफ करें//छोटी-छोटी बातों पर//जबरदस्ती मौके की तलाश करें ......Praise each other//on small things//look for forced opportunity
17. एक दूसरे के साथ समय बिताएं .......Spend time with each other
18. दोनों को खुले तौर पर बोलें न कि कोड वर्ड्स में .....Speak both in open manner not in code words
19 घर में सामूहिक रूप से काम बांटें//पूरे उत्साह के साथ .......Share work in home collectively//withfull enthasisasm
Re marrage
1 Corinthians 7:11 (And even if separated, keep on getting married without any other; or match your husband again) and neither leave his wife
1 Corinthians 7:39 As long as a woman's husband survives, she is bound to her, but when her husband dies, she can marry from whom she can marry, but only in the Lord
1 Corinthians 7:40 but Jessie is the same, then my view is even more blessed, and I understand that God's soul is in me too
1 Timothy 5:14 That is why I want young widows to marry; And the children should handle and handle the house, and do not give an opportunity to discredit any opponent
1 Timothy 5:16 If a belief has widows here, he should help them, that there is no weight on the church so that he can help those who are truly widows.
Divorce
Ezekiel 44:22 They should not marry the widow or left out; Only from the house of Israel's house, take virgin or widow who has become a woman of a priest ... Priest
Matthew 5: 31-32 It was also said that if anyone abandons his wife, resign him. 32 But I tell you that anyone who has its own If you leave the wife for some other reason except adultery, then he makes him adulterate; And whoever marries that abnat
Matthew 19: 8 He said to them, Moses ordered you to leave your wife due to the toughness of your mind, but it was not so in the beginning
Reason Why Divorce Commandment)
Matthew 19: 9 And I tell you that whoever leaves adultery and renounce his wife for some reason, marries from another, he does adultery: and whoever marries that left, he also commits adultery.
Mark 10: 11 He told them, who renounces his wife and marries from another, then he commits adultery against that first.