Stop Saying “You Always” and Start Solving the Problem

“You always forget.”
“You never listen.”
“You don’t care.”

Sound familiar?

When we start our sentences with “you”, we’re not just sharing a concern—we’re assigning blame.
And the moment your partner feels blamed, they stop listening and start defending.

💥 That’s how a conversation turns into a combat zone.

But here’s the shift that changes everything:
Stop making your partner the problem…
and start making the problem the problem.

It’s not about sugarcoating—it’s about being solution-focused instead of blame-driven.

Because real connection doesn’t come from being right.
It comes from being willing—to grow, to listen, to work together.

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