The Power of Please & the Safety of Honesty

The other day I was sweeping the floor when I asked Jeff to step off the mat so I could shake it out. Without hesitation, he moved—but then he said, “Please.”

I paused, realizing I hadn’t used the word myself. I looked at him and said, “I’m bad about that, aren’t I?”

Without judgment, just honesty, he said, “Yes.”

That moment stuck with me. Not because of the word please, but because of what it represented:

✅ The emotional safety to be honest with each other
✅ The ability to receive feedback without getting defensive
✅ The small but powerful impact of simple kindness

Marriage isn’t just about the big conversations—it’s built in the small, everyday interactions. A single word like please isn’t just politeness; it’s a reflection of how we honor and respect each other.

What’s one small shift you’ve made in your communication that strengthened your relationship? Let’s talk in the comments! 💬👇

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