Why You Pick Your Partner: The Psychology of Attraction & Love

Have you ever wondered why you’re drawn to certain people? In this episode, we uncover the psychology of attraction and the unconscious reasons behind your partner choices. From childhood experiences to hidden emotional wounds, we discuss how early attachment styles and past relationships shape who we find attractive and why those patterns sometimes lead to relationship challenges.

Attraction isn’t just about chemistry; it’s deeply influenced by trauma bonds, unmet childhood needs, and subconscious expectations. You will learn how these factors play out in romantic relationships, why certain traits that once felt comforting can later become triggering, and how to recognize patterns that no longer serve you. 

Whether you’re in a relationship or reflecting on past choices, this conversation will help you gain clarity on your love life. We’ll share practical strategies for breaking unhealthy cycles, deepening emotional connections, and building conscious, fulfilling relationships.

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Andrew’s 1-1 RESET Coaching Programme: ⁠https://www.andrewlynn.net/coaching⁠
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