Should We Use Porn to Improve Sex in Marriage? - 223

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Sexual intimacy isn't just physical—it's also spiritual. This truth, largely forgotten in our secularized culture, holds the key to experiencing the deep connection God designed for marriage.

The statistics are sobering: 64% of American men view pornography monthly, with Christian men matching the national average. Women's usage is rising sharply too. Yet despite unprecedented access to sexual content, marriages are struggling more than ever with intimacy issues. Why? Because we've divorced sex from its spiritual context.

When we have sex, our bodies release powerful bonding chemicals: oxytocin (the "cuddle hormone"), vasopressin (which in studies has shown to be effective in making other potential partners less attractive), and prolactin (which reduces stress). God designed these chemicals to wire us to our spouse alone. Pornography hijacks this system, creating "soul ties" with images instead of your partner, ultimately numbing your ability to bond properly with your spouse.

Marriage is a covenant relationship—and the Hebrew word for covenant literally means "to cut," requiring blood. This explains why God created Eve from Adam's side rather than dust. In this divine design, sex serves as both the covenant seal (consummation) and the ongoing sign that you're honoring your marriage vows. Just as communion is a covenant sign for Christians with God, sexual intimacy is the covenant sign between spouses.

For those struggling with past sexual relationships or pornography, there's hope through repentance, prayer to break soul ties, and accountability. Resources like Pure Desire Ministries can help, but ultimately, freedom comes through taking your thoughts captive and renewing your mind.

Ready to experience true sexual intimacy as God designed it? You don't miss this transformative episode!