The One List That Might Change Your Marriage Forever

It’s easy to spot what’s wrong with your partner. The way they forget things, how they react under stress, the habits that drive you crazy. But what if I told you that your focus might be the real problem?

Here’s a challenge:
📝 Write down all the things you don’t like about your partner.
📝 Now, write down all the things you don’t like about yourself.

If your second list is significantly shorter, that’s a problem.

Why? Because a marriage built on fixing your partner instead of refining yourself is a marriage headed for frustration. You can’t change them—but you can change how you show up, how you communicate, how you extend grace, and how you grow.

The more you obsess over their flaws, the more miserable you’ll become. The more you work on yourself, the healthier your marriage will be.

So, where is your focus? On their imperfections—or on your own personal growth?

Drop a 🙌 if you’re ready to shift your focus and do the real work!

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