Learn what other people’s paradigms are so you can seek to change them if necessary.

Not to manipulate, but to allow people to understand you.

P.S. Don’t ever tell me I’m kind or I’m a good person or I’m nice or whatever or else I’ll punch you in the throat (not seriously but you get my drift).

If I could trade some of my natural good character for some more natural competence, I honestly would. Not gonna lie.