We Only Fall In Love With 3 People In Our Lifetime

Love is the eternal theme that everyone cares whether they are happy or suffering. And in everyone's life, everyone will probably go through a lot of relationships. There is something that we must smile warmly when we remember, but there are also stories that we do not want to hear anyone talk about forever.

Imagine that is to taste enough, is know more about love, there is a basket of experience enough to spend the life to the end of life. But no, no matter how many relationships are going through, basically you love only three types of people over the course of your life. And each person enters your life for a special reason. The first type of love comes when we are very young, maybe when we are twenties or even third-grade ones. This is the most idealized love and the "overwhelming" love. like the fairytales we read as a child.

We bump into this relationship with the same fervent belief that this is the only love of our life, the one that happens to be certain we will never let go. Ignorance will sometimes have you feel the "wrong" in this relationship. Or even more tragic than self-deception and buried deep truth in front of eyes just to turn this love into a true fairy tales. You fools believe that love is like that. Because with this type of love, the look and feel of others is far more important than the emotions that come from within us.

The second person we love is the one who hurts the most. This is the person who will teach us who we really are and how much we need to be loved. At the same time, it is the kind of love that will be filled with difficulties, hardships, pain, deceit and even exploitation. Because with this type of love, the look and feel of others is far more important than the emotions that come from within us.

The second person we love is the one who hurts the most. This is the person who will teach us who we really are and how much we need to be loved. At the same time, it is the kind of love that will be filled with difficulties, hardships, pain, deceit and even exploitation. The reason we are constantly "addicted" to relationships like this is because of the constant emotional upsurge of emotion. At times, we can be happy and feel like we are the happiest people in the world. But then there will be moments when you feel your heart is broken by the hurt. The bottom line is that we accept ourselves as being "low" and then expecting things that are "high".

With this type of love, trying hard to make it "just as you want" makes us forget that there is something in the world that is unbearable. Love is the first thing in that list.

The third type of love is the relationship that you will never see that it is coming. Compared to what we have been expecting, it is not like the ideal type of lover that we are looking for this year. This love comes in a simple, gentle way, at a time you will not expect. The connection between you and the other person is as natural as possible. Not planned, not forced, not expected, but everything is very comfortable and unforgettable. With an unqualified miracle, you and the person will meet and stick together like pieces next to each other in a set: fit, harmony as born to the enemy.

You do not expect that person to be this way, to do this thing. And he treats you the same way. Both gently accept and love the human as well as the ego of the enemy. For the first time in your life, you feel completely comfortable being yourself when you are with someone else. And you realize that "true love" does not need to be what you once imagined. Because happiness does not necessarily come from a pattern, it is simply a feeling of peace, complete with the person you love. This kind of love is not searchable. Because it's simple on a nice day, it will come and lightly knock on your door.

Finals.

Not all of us will be able to experience all three types of love. Someone will always stick in the hurt with the second love. Or, luckily, the third type of love comes from the starting line. Someone simply avoids getting ready to step into any relationship. However, knowing that you have loved wrongly will help you cherish more when the so-called true love comes out. Some people take a lifetime to learn all three types of love, some people are lucky, only a few years young.

Someone once said that people from the starting line have found themselves with the true happiness. Yes, they are happy, that is undeniable.

But I also believe that those who have experienced all three types of love are really the ones who feel the most aftertaste and the value of love. They are tired of trying too hard for relationships. They are the people whose hearts have shattered countless times. They are the ones who after each break are lying down to rest only to ask themselves what was wrong, wrong where. But no, just because love has not arrived does not mean that it will forever be absent in your life. Each time, say to yourself "Oh, happy at the next station!"

Each of us has a choice. You can choose to stay with the first love, the one that "looks to be right" and so live in the dream. You can choose to continue to try in vain with second love and self-deceiving yourself that "if love without suffering is not love". Or you can choose to trust the third love, and make yourself more worthy of love. Love is just a word until someone comes into your life and shows you the true meaning of it.

How many people have you loved in your life?

How are you loving people?

What do you think you deserve most?

All the above questions, the only one who can answer is you.