What is love???.

Here's a concise view of what's not love:

1. Obsession: Unhealthy fixation, possessiveness, or control.
2. Infatuation: Temporary, superficial attraction.
3. Lust: Purely physical desire without emotional connection.
4. Codependency: Unhealthy reliance on someone else for emotional stability.
5. Manipulation: Using guilt, anger, or fear to control someone.
6. Abuse: Physical, emotional, or verbal harm.
7. Addiction: Unhealthy attachment to someone or something.
8. Selfishness: Prioritizing one's own needs without regard for others.
9. Conditional acceptance: Accepting someone only if they meet certain conditions.
10. Fear-based attachment: Staying in a relationship due to fear of being alone or rejected.

Remember, love is about mutual respect, trust, and care.