Day 15 Judging my insides by the outsides of others.

Day 15 Judging my insides by the outsides of others.

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Today is day 15 of 90 in 90

Let's begin: Higher Power, help me release the need to compare my journey to others and find peace in my own progress. Remind me that everyone has their own struggles, even if I can’t see them. Guide me to trust my path and embrace my growth, one step at a time.

Day 15, Judging my insides by the outsides of others is something I’ve done as long as I can remember. As I looked around at other people and saw what appeared to be confidence, happiness, or success, I instantly began comparing my inner chaos to their outward appearance. It’s a trap that insures inadequacy. I had always believed that I was the only person in the world with inadequacies, insecurities, doubts, and pain. I just didn't believe that everyone has their own struggles, because I was so focused on my own.

Through effort, I’ve learned, that comparison is not only misleading—it’s destructively harmful to my peace. I’m comparing my internal experience, which I feel deeply, to someone else’s external appearance, I cannot compete. My perception of their life is almost always completely false. I have no idea what’s going on in their life, what challenges they’re facing, or what battles they’re fighting. I only see what they choose to show the world or what I assume they are going through. And yet, I judge myself based on that incomplete picture, assuming I’m falling short when I’m likely doing just fine.

This habit of comparison disconnects me from my own journey and progress. It’s easy to feel like I’m not enough when I’m constantly measuring myself against others, but that only keeps me stuck in feelings of inadequacy. My journey is mine alone—unique, with its own timing and challenges. Someone else’s path isn’t a reflection of mine, nor is their success or happiness a reflection of my worth.

Today, Instead of comparing my insides to the outsides of others, I get to practice focusing on my own life, the good and bad, as it is. I get to remind myself that everyone has their own inner battles, and what matters most is my progress and not compare it to my perception of others. By actively letting go of comparison, I allow myself to appreciate the growth I’ve made, the lessons I’ve learned, and the steps I’m taking to become a better version of myself. Life isn’t a competition, and healing isn’t a race. When I stop judging my insides by the outsides of others, I find peace, acceptance, and confidence in my own journey.

This actively allows gratitude to grow in me and allows a peace to be possible.

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