The HOT Seat: Crazy Things For Love, Too High Standards? & Challenges W/ Faith | EP339

Episode Highlights: the journey of self growth & transformation, crazy things done for love, struggling with high standards, importance of values, personal faith journey

Summary: Welcome to this week’s edition of The HOT seat as Kaylor and team member Bret Howe dive into the raw and real challenges of love, relationships, and personal growth.
In this HOT Seat session, Kaylor reflects on his incredible transformation from the insecure 1.0 version of himself to the secure and fulfilled 2.0 version. He candidly shares the crazy things he did for love, driven by fears of abandonment and a need for validation. Bret opens up about her own struggles with anxious attachment and how she’s grown to become secure in his relationship.
They tackle the importance of building a life you're proud of before entering a relationship and the balance between maintaining high standards and having unrealistic expectations. Values play a big role as they discuss fitness, diet, and the quest for evidence in matters of faith. Kaylor reveals his difficulty in fully embracing his faith without concrete evidence, while Brett shares her journey from atheism to belief in Christ.
This episode is packed with powerful insights, heartfelt stories, and actionable advice. Tune in now and feel the energy on this edition of The HOT Seat!

Takeaways:

- Building a secure and fulfilling life for yourself is essential before entering a relationship
- Anxious attachment and fear of abandonment can lead to unhealthy behaviors in relationships
- Having high standards is important, but it's crucial to find a balance between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations
- Working on yourself and building self-confidence is key to developing secure attachment in relationships
- Values are crucial in relationships and it's important to find a partner who aligns with your values
- The challenge of embracing faith without concrete evidence
- The personal and unique nature of one's faith journey

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