Why do wimen value the attention of strangers?

Women seem to value the attention of total strangers MORE then the attentions of the person who they are with. They call it "Validation" and seek it out, to fill some gaping holes in their self worth, as if their value as a person can be measured by physical appearance or sex appeal. This seems crazy to me. I would rather be with a 80year old lady who I cared about me and I could have long discussions with. Then a feminist with a body count and an only fans page. It wouldn't matter if she was the hottest girl at the club, I'd choose the 80yr old sight unseen. And most men would agree with me. No one wants to take the village bicycle home to meet their mom... and for whatever reason wimen have not clued in to this fact. They are disqualifying themselves left and right from being considered "wife material"... and they are doing it on the advice of feminist cat farmers. As a false virtue signal. For "Likes" from simping strangers... Feminism is a toxic family destroying ideology. Flee from it.