114- Love after Lullabies

In this episode, hosts Aaron and Miranda of the Love After Lullabies podcast join Jey on the Young Dad Podcast. They discuss their journey of becoming known donors for a same-sex couple, the experience of being a biological father but not the primary parent, and the challenges and growth they have experienced as a couple and parents. They also share their family backgrounds and values, as well as how they balance their day jobs with parenting. The episode concludes with a discussion about the challenges of adding a puppy to their already busy lives. In this conversation, the guests discuss various topics related to parenting and personal growth. They talk about adjusting to a new living situation, making time for self-care, balancing work and extracurriculars, witnessing children's development, the joys of swimming, memories of living in Flagstaff, and their rootedness in Oregon and Arizona. They also share their passion for their podcast, Love After Lullabies, and the importance of vulnerability and sharing stories. Overall, the conversation highlights the challenges and joys of parenting and the importance of finding balance and support.

Takeaways

Adjusting to a new living situation can be challenging, but it also brings new opportunities for growth and connection.
Making time for self-care is essential for parents, even if it means sacrificing some time with children or pets.
Balancing work and extracurricular activities can be challenging, but it is important to prioritize children's interests and passions.
Witnessing children's development and seeing them excel in their interests is rewarding and worth the sacrifices.
Living in Flagstaff, Arizona, has left a lasting impact on the guests, and they have fond memories of their time there.
Being rooted in both Oregon and Arizona has shaped the guests' identities and sense of home.
Finding grounding and balance is important when feeling stressed or overwhelmed.
Offering support and advice to others can be challenging, but it is important to listen and be present for those in need.
The guests are passionate about their podcast, Love After Lullabies, and the power of vulnerability and sharing stories.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Background
03:24 The Journey of Becoming Known Donors
09:10 The Experience of Being a Biological Father but Not the Primary Parent
15:22 The Parenting Journey and Growth as a Couple
25:22 Family Background and Values
33:00 Balancing Day Jobs and Parenting
36:34 Challenges of Adding a Puppy to the Mix
38:38 Adjusting to a New Living Situation
39:30 Making Time for Self-Care
41:43 Balancing Work and Extracurriculars
43:18 Witnessing Children's Development
44:48 The Joys of Swimming
46:49 Memories of Living in Flagstaff
48:06 Rootedness in Oregon and Arizona
53:03 Finding Balance and Grounding
56:00 Offering Support and Advice
01:00:47 Passion for Love After Lullabies