What is rules of marriage of girls in islam

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Asslamoalaikum sisters brothers friends and elders we are discribing that What is rules of marriage of girls in islam?

Islam gives every female the right to choose her marriage partner – and to annul any betrothal agreed on her behalf – upon reaching puberty and attaining comprehensive maturity.

There are a number of requirements for a marriage to be legal: Both man and woman must willingly consent to the marriage before it can take place. The marriage must be made public, with two witnesses from each side present at the ceremony. Islam does not allow secret marriages.

Peoples have many questions in their mind before marriage, for example, like
How can we find a compatible spouse who will love us and journey with us through life’s many trials and heartache?

How can we find an equal who will hold our hand and bring us solitude and calmness after a long day at the office?

How can we find our happily ever after?

The answer is very simple. Before you conduct lengthy background checks and converse with a potential spouse to see if your character and personality traits align, it’s paramount you ensure the suitor is eligible to marry. Marriage is a legally binding contract – whether you marry legally or/and Islamically, it is a contract between the state or/and God. The step of checking marriage eligibility is similar to making sure an employee is a suitable candidate for a role at your firm. When hiring someone, you need to examine if the candidate has all the relevant qualifications, work experience, good character and references to qualify as an employee. Similarly, when you intend to marry someone, there are conditions from the Qur’an and sunnah which a man must meet before he can put a ring on your finger.

Allah Almighty said in verse 21 of surah Al Rum “And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find rest in them, and He put between you love and compassion; most surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect.”

There is no problem consulting also, with Allah (SWT) about marriage and performing the istikhara, to dispel any confusion. It is not allowed to go against the outcome of the Istikhara.

Those who are in favor of raising the legal age for marriage argue that:

1. Boys, before the age of 18 and girls, before the age of 15 aren't equipped to form a family and aren't in a position to bear the heavy responsibilities and difficulties of family life.

2. Early marriages are a contributing factor to criminality.

3. Women who have fled from their husbands' homes and have them become resentful towards them, are mostly women who have got married before the legal age of marriage.

In response to such arguments it could be said that although there is no denial of the fact that early marriages, before physical and mental maturity, may lead to betrayal, family disagreements and many other problems; however, when a girl or a boy is physically and mentally ready for married-life, then there is no reason why the legal age for marriage should be increased.

Allah almighty give us permission to read undrstand and follow Quran and its tafsir and hidth. Ameen Allah hafiz

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