Man In His 30's Has Never ever had a Girlfriend

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This man was in his early 30's, not yet been with a woman leading up to this point in his life. He had never had a girlfriend. This topic was discussed openly during the interview. It was one of many thought provoking and challenging topics we discussed together. These basic issues can be swept under the carpet in our daily lives. Many people can suffer in silence, and have never felt validated or heard. Their physical and emotional needs taboo, awkwardly passed by in discussion, with any outcomes of genuine change and quality of life ignored. Do people really talk to each other anymore outside the superficial? We are sexual, it is part of being human. One of many assets we hold. I honor and appreciate his willingness to be honest and real.

❤️ In your adult life have you had a girlfriend?
😮 I .. honestly .. I've .. um .. they seem that they went away.
I haven't worried about really trying to do that yet, I have hoped.
❤️ Surely you've at times, thought it would be nice to have a girlfriend?
😮 Yeh
❤️ Or a wife?
😮 Yep
❤️ Or children?
😮 Yes
❤️ Is it sometimes hard not having that in your life?
😮 Yes

Cognitive, intellectual, physical and mental health disabilities can be a place of loneliness and isolation. So can sickness, social economics, race, age and addiction. Many overlap. It can be difficult to find a sexual partner or genuine long term friendships under any circumstances. I still struggle socially, emotionally, cognitively and physically. It is ok to talk about this stuff, it's a normal part of the process toward finding good, meaningful quality of life. Both short term and long term outcomes needed. I have been through hell and back and can confidently say society is quite awkward toward those of indifference. That doesn't stop the heart from beating or one's longing to be loved, wanted and enjoyed through human connection and meaningful relationship.

Footage taken from Roadz Of Life documentary

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