3 Reasons you aren't Attracting a Relationship (and how to fix it)

"Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron, and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video I'm going to be showing you three reasons you may not be attracting a relationship into your life, and show you how to change those things or how to modify in a way that actually gets you closer to the desire that you have.
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"Now understand that of course, under most of these videos, I say this idea. We don't necessarily attract that which we want but we always attract who we are being. This video, these three things I'm going to share with you, are ways to optimize who we're being in the present moment, which then increase the probabilities of us actually getting a reflection in our life of that new state of being and of who we are.
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"Now the first reason that you may not be attracting the relationship that you want could be because, to begin with, you are attached to the outcome. Now a lot of times, when people even have the desire to be in a relationship, there could be the main desire being from getting away from the pain of being single, of getting away of the pain of not having someone there.
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"The first key is realizing that we are attracting who we're being, so we must first condition the feeling inside of us of feeling whole and complete. This means that we need to start to view ourself in a new way. We need to realize that if we even desire somebody else, it's because many times we desire the feeling that that person could bring us. But the paradox is that we must first feel the feeling of what it is to be in a relationship and we must start with the relationship to ourself.
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"Now in order to do this, we need to start to view ourself in a new way. Instead of viewing ourselves as not whole and complete, because many times we're conditioned to believing that somebody else will fulfill the other half of us, we then automatically have a definition about ourselves that we aren't enough. That we need somebody else to feel that way. Because of that, that generates the feeling of us not feeling whole and complete if somebody else isn't there.
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"Now realize you can look at yourself in a new way. You can start to view yourself as already whole and complete just by changing the definition that says that you are already enough, you can validate yourself, and you don't really need somebody outside of yourself to make you feel a certain way.
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"Start to be grateful for who you are. Start to view yourself in a new light. Then the paradox is that you're more likely to increase the probability of you needing someone because you are conditioning the feeling inside of yourself. Also realize that people pick up on vibes. If you are feeling not whole and complete, you're feeling resistance, then there's more likelihood that somebody else that you talk to, they're going to feel that resistance off of you and that's going to repel them. Condition yourself into feeling the love you have with yourself and you're more likely to increase the probability of somebody else feeling that love off of you, and then resonating with it and feeling the same way that you feel about yourself about you.
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"The second reason that you may not be attracting a relationship could be because you are more focused on the absence of it than you are it being here. Now you might say, "How am I supposed to feel what it is to have the person here?" Well realize that the reflection that we get in our life is depending upon who we are being. Part of that has to do with our focus. If we're constantly beating the drum of the person I want isn't here, the person I want isn't here, then what we keep doing is we keep literally imposing that upon our life experience. We keep on imposing that, and because of that, it keeps reflecting back to us that experience.
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"The second part to this is letting go of the attention that we have to the relationship not being here. A lot of times to do this, all we simply have to do is focus on ourselves, is focus on doing what we're passionate about. As we begin to do that, it's like then we put it on the back burner. When we put being a relationship on the...Show more

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