Incels: I hate how women gaslight virgins into the idea that sex won't help us, but therapy will

Losing your virginity as a man won't fix your issues within. Neither will having sex with an ocean of women as a confident man. Like all things, it's important for us to ask ourselves why we desire the things we do. What compels a man to yearn for something so much that he would do nearly anything to attain it? Taking the steps to understand why you're motivated to do something with brutal honesty will always be a better course of action than giving in to your desperation and placing all of your hopes for salvation into something that has little to do with your development as a man.

Sex is (usually) something that men obtain after a journey of self-development. Expecting women to give it you because you're frustrated to be without, and then coming to the conclusion that it's worth your time to spite them when they don't, will always make you weak. It's not a woman's responsibility to please you, or even help you, because you're lost. And making the choice to confide in them in the hopes that they pity you or understand you and give you what you want is not only a fool's plan, but a guaranteed way to destroy your chances of building the attraction you'd prefer to see in the women you desire.