Revelation Bible Study / Secrets 5:13-14

The husband does not lift the veil if the bride doesn't prepare herself and come to where he is. And unless we are like Ester to come simply as we are satisfied with how he makes us, then how does he recognize us to acknowledge us as his bride (and give us the light.)

Do not think you are fine or this world is fine as is. You are not married until you speak face to face and are like each other. Do not act like you have arrived and this is all there is. Seek his presence and when you find it plead with him to never leave.

"You are in darkness" and this world is dying.

1 John goes on to say...
We know that whoever is born of God does not sin; but he who has been born of God keeps himself, and the wicked one does not touch him.

You are no longer yourself. You died to that person. And now, you cannot sin or walk in darkness but are the light of the world. You were bought with a price, therefore glorify God in your body. (You are not your body anymore.) But it is not you, it is your husband in you. He is your body and you are His. You do not have any light of your own and all creation will acknowledge this.