Mary was disobedient to Jesus

Mary seems to have been following the Holy Spirit, obeying the general plan of God, during the events of Jesus ChristMa birth and early childhood. But by the time of His Bar Mitzvah at age 12 she was not in tune with the Spirit’s leading and plan for his life. By the time Jesus is beginning his ministry, Mary had grown out of touch and furthermore was no longer obedient to God her son. She was okay with Jesus goving out wine but not okay with Jesus confronting the corruption of God’s temple into a bank and preaching the Word of God contrary to the satanic and godless world. God’s Word always offends the world when it threatens Satan’s grasp on it, and so the worldly people become offended and withdraw from it. Mary withdrew offended, and at one point, she even tried to arrest Jesus. The first time we see her, returning to Jesus and faith was at the further cross, perhaps, or for certain at the day of Pentecost. That’s a long time to be out of relationship.