Good Woman vs Nice Girl

A good woman makes good decisions for herself regardless of how other choose to show up.

A nice girl will minimize herself and needs, while making sure others are cared for.

A good women has standards for how she expects to be treated. If you disrespect her, you will be made aware. If you do it again, or if it’s egregious enough the first time, she will walk away.

A nice girl will do everything she can to salvage the connection, even if that means lowering her standards for the treatment she will accept.

A good woman invites others up into their highest expression.

A nice girl makes excuses for other’s behavior.

A good woman understands her power and directs it responsibly.

A nice girl is afraid of her power and allows others to tell her how to use it.

A good woman loves herself unconditionally, which means she will not lower her standards of how she loves herself.

A nice girl loves everyone else unconditionally while she gets her leftovers.

Bottom line, the nice girl is a doormat for sloppy and harmful interactions that drain her, while a good woman will always make sure she is cared for and sharing from her abundance.

It is NOT a rejection of another to disconnect when they show up outside of integrity.

it IS accepting their choice to remain in a way of relating you’ve already said you wont participate it.

Feel the difference and comment below if you’re a good woman, or a nice girl.

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