Stop Making Excuses for the Narcissist’s Behavior

Too much attention goes into affirming the Narcissist’s sob story of a life so we can be more understanding of them and dismiss, once again, their victims.

We get. They had a bad childhood and didn’t heal.

And so did the victim of their abuse, and yet they ain’t out doing narcissistic shit!

Bottom line: you are enabling the narcissistic cycle by making excuses for their behavior, gaslighting their victim to be understanding of their abuser, and then dismissing or shaming any density they feel about the abuse by telling them to be the bigger person.

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