Borderline Narcissist CoMorbid Parent(s) - Scapegoated Adult Child

I was the child of two co-morbid Borderline/Narcissists Parents with alcoholism mainly father and his side of family of origin and compulsive over-eating - father and his side of the family. I was the scapegoat child and the scapegoated adult-child. I have healed and let this go. An NPD/BPD mother who isolated, triangulated, and pathologically lied to her Golden Child and other family members to get her "victim-attention" needs met has made sure that I remain the punished scapegoat of that family of origin to this day. Their hatred has only increased in all these years. I have no hatred. I care. I have disengaged. I have healed and moved on. They are now only hurting themselves. Adult Children need to find their way through a healing process that most often cannot happen without going no contact from such a toxic abusive family system as I did. We can empower ourselves to recovery without them.

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