Borderline Splitting The Cycle - How & Why Devaluation Ends

Borderline Splitting The Cycle - How & Why Devaluation Ends

In answer to a question asked about Borderline Splitting - how does the borderline come back to "value" you as opposed to the devaluation phase? Do they come back to "loving you again"? What is that about. In a relationship where you borderline wife (or husband) has devalued you, what makes them stop that, why and how does that end?

Borderline Splitting: The Cycle - How/Why Devaluation Ends

I explain that. I also touch on the reason for devaluation in the first place but concentrate a bit more on the end of the devaluation cycle, which in marriages where not threat of relationships break-up is imminent, without really idealization or another honeymoon phase but more often than not they just seem "back to normal" as if nothing ever happened. And often the borderline needs to you to approach them so that they can re-connect.

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