Borderline or Narcissist Hoover & why obsessing on it Hurts So Much?

Are you obsessing about whether or not a borderline will hoover you? Obsessing about a Narcissist "hoover" re-targeting you? Why does this hurt so much? What can you do to deal with the pain? How can you change your external focus?

Clients, thousands of them over the last close to 25 years have asked these questions in more in my successfully helping them to get beyond this obsessive focus on the borderline or narcissist's hoover and really emotionally understand how externally focusing on that will increase your pain and cognitive dissonance and keep you stuck not moving forward on a healing journey.

http://ajmahari.ca/contact Sessions to help you get beyond obsessing about a borderline or narcissist hoovering you or not.