Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Relationship Breakup | Control & Your Personal Responsibility

Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Relationship Breakup - Control & Your Personal Responsibility

People with Borderline PD or Narcissistic PD seek control in relating - so do others if only in reaction. What ensues is a two-way control struggle that isn’t just the Borderline. Do you want to blame them or heal yourself? Is it accurate to say that what is the core of the dynamic with a Borderline or a Narcissist is control - that is the "symptom" or manifestation of something that in its own right is not even close to actual core of what happens in these relationships. Watch out for some who avow they are codependent who are in many cases covert narcissists. That changes everything in the dynamic of the "codependent" to BPD or NPD relationship.

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