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Surviving BPD Breakup CODA Isn’t Relevant For Codependency A Trauma Response - Not Addiction
Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup CODA Relevant For Codependency Recovery?
There have been many who have studied and written about Codependent's Anonymous as not helpful for people with Codependency in the late 1980's and the decline of CODA in the late 1990's. The 12 Steps of CODA are the 12 Steps of AA and they are not a good mix and match for codependency at all. You don't need a layperson "sponsor" you need a skilled therapist.
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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup - Is CODA Relevant For Codependency Recovery?
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0:00 Intro
8:01 Major CODA Issue
9:14 12 Steps for Life?
9:24 Find a Meeting?
9:46 Client Feedback
10:41 Long Term Adherents
11:35 Sponsorship
12:04 CODA Steps Co-opted From AA
15:42 12 Steps No Help BPD or BPD Ex
16:44 AA 12 Steps (CODA) Codependents
27:05 Childhood Trauma Requires Therapy
27:23 Cluster B Can't Help Abuse?
27:55 AJ Works With BPD Ex BPD Covert NPD
28:13 Co-opted AA Steps Not Codependency Help
29:49 Self Medicating Drugs & Alcohol - BPD Ex Codependent
32:27 Co-opted AA Steps No Efficacy For ACOA or Codependents
33:12 Substance Addiction Different From Trauma Bond Addiction
34:00 CODA & Veterans of it Dysfunctional
35:36 ACOA vs Coda Dysfunction?
38:57 Self-Medicating vs Inner Child Healing
42:26 12 Steps Better For Substance Abuse Not Codependency
44:05 BPD Ex Share Your Story
47:55 Vaknin Says He's BPD - Nope
48:26 Vaknin + "I Psychopath" (12 years ago)
51:04 Q&A w/A.J.
1:37:58 Gut Instincts & Gut Brain
1:40:47 Q&A w/A.J.
1:57:05 BPD Random Suicidal Thoughts Your Fault?
1:58:19 Codependent Trigger a BPD?
2:06:45 BPD Lost Self Internal Triggers *Not About You*
2:15:56 BPD Pain - Lost Self
2:19:30 Q&A w/A.J.
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51:48 Vaknin
53:59 BPD Ex Void Self Medicating
54:52 BPD Ex Q&A w/A.J.
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The Videos, workbooks, podcasts and more information that I will make available at cost, that will be very in depth, will be on BPD, the BPD/Codependent Dynamic, Surviving a BPD or NPD Relationship Breakup, and will include in depth information for those hurt by a Narcissist, adult children of a Narcissistic or Borderline Parent, family members, and siblings or friends and favorite people. In depth, information to educate you and help you heal.
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