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Loving a Borderline: Can You Talk to "REAL" Borderline Codependents & BPD Projective Identification
Loving a Borderline: Can You Talk to "REAL" Borderline Codependents & BPD Projective Identification
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0:00 Intro
0:25 Can You Talk to The "REAL" Borderline?
0:30 "Real Borderline" Avoid NPD Abuser? BPD is NOT NPD
1:00 No Idealization In Honeymoon Phase
1:26 Borderlines Not NPD or ASPD
1:47 Conflicting Info is NOT settled Science
2:19 BPD Abuse is BPD Abuse
3:04 No Real "person" untreated BPD
3:33 BPD is Loss of Self
4:18 BPD Projective Identification
5:33 Trauma Bonds Betrayal Bonds Between BPD & Codependents
6:15 BPD Projective Identification Defense Mechanism
6:43 2 Meanings of Projective Identification & Codependent Introjection
7:23 Projective Identification & BPD Fantasy
9:25 BPD Inducing Codependent To Share Fantasy - Enmeshment
12:01 Codependent Loss of Self To BPD Projective Identification
13:37 Projective Identification - Gaslighting - BPD or NPD You As Object Other
14:09 Codependent Introjection of BPD Projective Identification
16:37 BPD Narcissism Not NPD (Kernberg)
17:03 Types of Projective Identification in BPD Effect on Codependents
18:03 Dual Projective Identifications BPD & Codependency (Lachkar)
19:00 Not Either/Or Trying to Talk to "REAL" Borderline
19:48 No "REAL" Self in Untreated Borderlines
19:59 What Do You Experience with Untreated BPD as Codependent?
22:58 Borderline Codependent Dance Trauma Betrayal Bond Dynamics
23:37 No "REAL" Borderline - Disavowed Lost Self in BPD
24:26 Codependent Need To Focus on Your Part of Trauma Bond Dynamics & Recovery
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